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supersizeme
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Help! Did not get kiss on first date-outing!
- Thread starter timewilltell
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68GT350
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You're a dork. Your game is weak. Don't ask for a first kiss...just go for it. Don't offer any information--let her ask for it. Sounds like you did too much talking, as well. Let her carry some of the conversation as well adn stop being so self-centered.
You also sound like you're getting WAY too involved to begin with. Take it more casually, if she hasn't already written you off. The fact that you've written a god damned novel shows how crazy you're being. Relax, breath, and realize that htere's plenty more of htem out there and for christ sakes...Stop sweating over this crap. I don't go for a first kiss onthe first date and any respectable girl shouldn't either.
You also sound like you're getting WAY too involved to begin with. Take it more casually, if she hasn't already written you off. The fact that you've written a god damned novel shows how crazy you're being. Relax, breath, and realize that htere's plenty more of htem out there and for christ sakes...Stop sweating over this crap. I don't go for a first kiss onthe first date and any respectable girl shouldn't either.
Bikini Mod
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Are you sure that you are NOT a girl? GEEZE! We overanalyze too much?!
LOL Listen dear. There is NOTHING WRONG with you not having gotten a kiss on the first date.
I am 35, soon2bdivorced mother of four children (so I know exactly how to fuck too), and a dancer.
I NEVER EVER KISS ON THE FIRST DATE - EVER!
Why? Is it because I am a prude? No. It is because of the simple fact that I do NOT like sexually aggressive men. I want to sit there the whole time and think to myself, "When is he going to kiss me? Why isn't he kissing me? Is he going to kiss me now?!" If a man makes the first move REGARDLESS of how much I like him, WE ARE DONE - PERIOD.
The last two men that I had relationships with I knew FOR MONTHS before we ever even had physical contact. Then when we did finally get together I WAS THE ONE WHO ENDED UP PRACTICALLY RAPING THEM!!!
I have been in situations where I have even slept over the guy's apartment (I slept on their couch of course) and we are talking HUG at the end of the date. And I am not talking a hug where I hug with my whole body (that is below the hips).
Just relax.
True, the girl may have been turned off a bit by your sexual past but that doesn't necessarily indicate that she isn't willing to forego that by getting to know you better.
Take a deep breath and stop psychologizing so much. If she digs you then you will get together again, if not, oh well. She is not the first girl that you really liked and she will not be the last.
I think that it is always better for a guy to be TOTALLY cool with making physical moves on a girl than for her to like him but to be turned off because she felt a bit forced to have contact.
Just my .02
LOL Listen dear. There is NOTHING WRONG with you not having gotten a kiss on the first date.
I am 35, soon2bdivorced mother of four children (so I know exactly how to fuck too), and a dancer.
I NEVER EVER KISS ON THE FIRST DATE - EVER!
Why? Is it because I am a prude? No. It is because of the simple fact that I do NOT like sexually aggressive men. I want to sit there the whole time and think to myself, "When is he going to kiss me? Why isn't he kissing me? Is he going to kiss me now?!" If a man makes the first move REGARDLESS of how much I like him, WE ARE DONE - PERIOD.
The last two men that I had relationships with I knew FOR MONTHS before we ever even had physical contact. Then when we did finally get together I WAS THE ONE WHO ENDED UP PRACTICALLY RAPING THEM!!!
I have been in situations where I have even slept over the guy's apartment (I slept on their couch of course) and we are talking HUG at the end of the date. And I am not talking a hug where I hug with my whole body (that is below the hips).
Just relax.
True, the girl may have been turned off a bit by your sexual past but that doesn't necessarily indicate that she isn't willing to forego that by getting to know you better.
Take a deep breath and stop psychologizing so much. If she digs you then you will get together again, if not, oh well. She is not the first girl that you really liked and she will not be the last.
I think that it is always better for a guy to be TOTALLY cool with making physical moves on a girl than for her to like him but to be turned off because she felt a bit forced to have contact.
Just my .02
maybe the problem wasn't her. it was you. you seem to have to have sex with a lot of girls in order to prove you are straight. this in turn exhibits latent homosexuality... see you wrote 16 pages of text on why you did not get a first kiss... this is obsession. the reason you failed this is because subconciously you wanted it to fail. my advice is to start wearing rainbow patches and get some stickers for your car.
there's many colors in the homo rainbow... don't be afraid to let your color's shine through.
there's many colors in the homo rainbow... don't be afraid to let your color's shine through.
Ffactor
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Hey kid are you familiar with the acronym TMI? You are one pathetic loser! This is what you should do - go to the liquor store and get some Vodka, then go to the grocery store and pick up some extra strength Drano. When you get home, pop in a good movie, get some popcorn, then mix 3 parts of Vodka with 1 part Drano in a shaker with some ice. Drink it slow, feel the burn then go to sleep. Trust me in the morning you will wake up proud to be a man!
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gettinlarger
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havoc said:
Actually, I think Elmer's is odorless ...
Anyway, is this that Finaject dude again? No one with 12 posts ever posts anything this long and annoying ...
