got dumped..BUT I'M GONNA GET PUMPED, HUMPED, JUMPED AND BUMPED!

[MattTheSkywalker]

Re: got dumped..

Your updates represent perfectly normal behavior...hang in there...you'll be Ok with this pretty soon.

At some point you will feel sheepish for putting it all on the boards.

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

Your updates represent perfectly normal behavior...hang in there...you'll be Ok with this pretty soon.

At some point you will feel sheepish for putting it all on the boards.

Yeah, you are not the first to say this.

And at this point, I really don't care, I'm actually looking FORWARD to feeling like dumbass for putting this all out on the boards for everyone to see.. because at that point I think I'll be well into the healing process and likely not feeling so down. I'd much rather feel the tiny bit of regret that this thread can bring, then the overwhelming sense of loss that thinking about "her" brings on.

 

[bran987]

Re: got dumped..

Yeah, you are not the first to say this.

And at this point, I really don't care, I'm actually looking FORWARD to feeling like dumbass for putting this all out on the boards for everyone to see.. because at that point I think I'll be well into the healing process and likely not feeling so down. I'd much rather feel the tiny bit of regret that this thread can bring, then the overwhelming sense of loss that thinking about "her" brings on.

see? you're already looking at the bright side of things

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

see? you're already looking at the bright side of things

Yeah! The bright side is that I get to feel like an idiot one of these days... grand!

 

[string_bean00]

Re: got dumped..

Yeah, you are not the first to say this.

And at this point, I really don't care, I'm actually looking FORWARD to feeling like dumbass for putting this all out on the boards for everyone to see.. because at that point I think I'll be well into the healing process and likely not feeling so down. I'd much rather feel the tiny bit of regret that this thread can bring, then the overwhelming sense of loss that thinking about "her" brings on.

I did the same thing on another board about a year ago...it was practically a break up journal for all too see. I kind of laugh if I read it now.

 

[Lestat]

Re: got dumped..

Newsflash...

Just got this email from her:
____________
Hope you had an overall good time on your trip...probably pretty crazy
im assuming. I just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you
although i think the healthiest thing for both of us is to work
through this seperately. I jsut didn't want you to think that i'm
ignoring you, i just think not seeing each other is much better. Hope
things are going better for you...

Sarah
________

I don't think I'm even gonna reply...

 

[velvett]

Re: got dumped..

Newsflash...

Just got this email from her:
____________
Hope you had an overall good time on your trip...probably pretty crazy
im assuming. I just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you
although i think the healthiest thing for both of us is to work
through this seperately. I jsut didn't want you to think that i'm
ignoring you, i just think not seeing each other is much better. Hope
things are going better for you...

Sarah
________

I don't think I'm even gonna reply...

Don't you dare reply!

"work through this separately" - WTF is that supposed to mean?

Of course she's not ignoring you - she has to keep the ties open so in case of things don't work out you'll still take her back.


You're almost free - just some more time - you'll start to feel good about this, feel good about yourself and let some new people into your life.

 

[from zero]

Re: got dumped..

If you reply to that, you're a fool.

Move on buddy boy.

 

[jh1]

Re: got dumped..

Newsflash...

Just got this email from her:
____________
Hope you had an overall good time on your trip...probably pretty crazy
im assuming. I just wanted to let you know that I'm thinking of you
although i think the healthiest thing for both of us is to work
through this seperately. I jsut didn't want you to think that i'm
ignoring you, i just think not seeing each other is much better. Hope
things are going better for you...

Sarah
________

I don't think I'm even gonna reply...

LOL... You don't think you're gonna reply?

You had better not.

She's trying to keep you on a string... ya know...... just in case it suits her.

Whatever... leave it go... any reply and she will sense the desperation. Ignore her completely and soon she'll be begging you, then you'll start to see how disgusting her behavior is and you will be totally turned off by her...

LOL... seriously it always works... it takes some nads to get through that first phase, but soon - my bor - you will resent her...

You'll be wanting her less, and she'll be wanting you more...

 

[Becoming]

Re: got dumped..

Ignore her completely and soon she'll be begging you, then you'll start to see how disgusting her behavior is and you will be totally turned off by her...

You'll be wanting her less, and she'll be wanting you more...

agree with all the above

muhahahaha now the control is in your court... chicks are idiots.

ignore, ignore, ignore...

then know when she is long forgotten by you she will think "how did I let him get away"

revenge is a dish best served cold(ly)...