Exercises:
I don't know how much help I'll be - cuz I'm all about bulking too! But here it is:
I always do 5 min warm up of light intensity on some cardio equip, one very light warm-up set (50%-75% of what I'll use for set 1), then stretch, then go. I always stretch b/t sets too.
Legs:
usually start with squats - but after 3 months decided to change - now lunges are 1st (step, lunge, return).
I usually do 4 exercises total mixing up:
SLDL
Hack squat
curl
extension
-> I would do press but I just don't like the machine at the gym where I'm usually training. Going to learn cleans tomorrow
Might try Romanian DL, but I've always just found those awkward in the past.
-> I don't do calves cuz they're HUGE already from aerobics & just genetics.
Back:
Start with lat pull down or pull ups
Seated row on the cable or machine
one arm row/ lawnmower pull
dead row with barbell
stiff arm pull down on cable machine
shrugs (sometimes superset these with rows to save time)
seated bent over rear delt flies
-> usually 4 of those exercises altogether, sometimes 5.
Chest:
Usually lead with bench -flat
DB press - flat, incline or decline
occasionally incline BB press
flies - flat, or slight incline
decline push up - with bench or stability ball & plate on my back
cable crossover
-> pick 3
Shoulders:
military press with BB or DB
lateral raise
upright row
front raise
Arnold press
-> pick 3 usually
Arms:
Bi curls - supinating, incline, easy bar, rope on the cable machine (also supinating), hammer curls sometimes, supine laying on a bench w/ the cable machine, concentration curls
-> pick 3
Tris
diamond pushups
bar dips (I could do more than 10 bench dips with a 45# plate in my lap, so I moved to bar dips)
pull down & pronate with rope
pull down with bar
skull crushers
french presses
-> pick 3
---> will super set bis & tris every now & again too to save time.
I incorporate drop sets or negatives as the last set for a body part when it's the week to work that body part heavy.
As far as what she should not do heavy - that is definitely up to her body type & how she looks now. For example, I have thick legs & a sizable booty - so IF I didn't want mass (but I do!), I'd totally cut out SLDL & go lighter weight higher reps on the squats. But I'd still go heavy on tris - since it's a small muscle anyway & the size looks nice. I also like chest definition so I'd keep that heavy. I would eliminate shrugs if I wanted to be less "BRAWNY" (as a fellow aerobics instructor told me I was lookin' a few weeks ago), since my traps have some size to them. But that's all unique to my physique.
She should really be careful though not to purposefully create a muscular imbalance -> i.e. training chest & not back can lead to rounded shoulders, bad posture - pain, etc. So keep the balance.
Feel free to PM me any more Q's or just post back.