The original pic convo was started by another coworker saying she will send pics to her BF. Mine said she does that to me sometimes, he asked for a pic, she sent, immediately regretted it.

She likened it to me getting a lapdance, which I have not since being with her (8 yrs). I said fuck no because I don't work with the lap dance provider, don't see them every day, am not a friend with them, and they haven't met you, had dinner at your house, been golfing with you, and knew you got back together with your spouse. No answer to that one.