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Say goodbye to doing things on your own time when you are good and ready to do them. If you think this list below is all a matter of course then you'll make a great husband. Many of these things my spouse won't do in a timely manner, if at all. I was actually working on this for therapy, but thought I'd share it too. It's a fast forward into reality:
The honey do this before you start to fight list:
1) Don't just mow the weeds, get rid of them!
2) Will you at least take care of the weeds if *I* buy the weed killer?
3) Fine, I'll take care of the weeds. Will you at least buy some stones for the land scaping?
4) Can you wash the car more than once a month?
5) Fine, I'll wash the car, but will you at least vacuum?
6) Fine, I'll wash and vacuum the car, will you at least organize your stuff in the garage?
7) Oh forget it....I'm tired. Are you tired of hearing this too? It's what happens in households all across north america... Real life dude, REAL life.
A great quote I heard from a gay guy soap opera: "Honey, if we love each other, we'll be considerate of each other."
Take pride in your house and home and take care of crap dude. Help each other out. Forget traditional roles and just do it to be considerate. For a woman, her love language is she wants you to say nice things, be affectionate, take care of the home with pride, and don't be a lazy ass. For a guy, you may see buying her stuff as the way to show you love her. Be in tuned to how SHE wants you to show love to her and she should in turn know what you need as gestures of love like giving you head when you want it. Love language- sooo important. I'm trying to accept my spouses and his and mine are soooo incompatible, but I have to accept it even if it's not what I prefer and hopefully he will try better to meet me halfway and show me what I want like taking me on a date more than 3 times a year and NOT skipping special occassions out b/c of the kids.
Again, good luck.
So, everyone, is my husband typical or a real "gem"?
The honey do this before you start to fight list:
1) Don't just mow the weeds, get rid of them!
2) Will you at least take care of the weeds if *I* buy the weed killer?
3) Fine, I'll take care of the weeds. Will you at least buy some stones for the land scaping?
4) Can you wash the car more than once a month?
5) Fine, I'll wash the car, but will you at least vacuum?
6) Fine, I'll wash and vacuum the car, will you at least organize your stuff in the garage?
7) Oh forget it....I'm tired. Are you tired of hearing this too? It's what happens in households all across north america... Real life dude, REAL life.
A great quote I heard from a gay guy soap opera: "Honey, if we love each other, we'll be considerate of each other."
Take pride in your house and home and take care of crap dude. Help each other out. Forget traditional roles and just do it to be considerate. For a woman, her love language is she wants you to say nice things, be affectionate, take care of the home with pride, and don't be a lazy ass. For a guy, you may see buying her stuff as the way to show you love her. Be in tuned to how SHE wants you to show love to her and she should in turn know what you need as gestures of love like giving you head when you want it. Love language- sooo important. I'm trying to accept my spouses and his and mine are soooo incompatible, but I have to accept it even if it's not what I prefer and hopefully he will try better to meet me halfway and show me what I want like taking me on a date more than 3 times a year and NOT skipping special occassions out b/c of the kids.
Again, good luck.
So, everyone, is my husband typical or a real "gem"?
might as well name the thread mememememe
