NY is probably more unique in that respect smoknjilly.....at least that's what I gather from watching my mom's rented tapes of Sex in the City...lol For example I think if you were going to go to Los Angeles you'd find the complete opposite situation going on for the most part.
Oh and ps, I'm naturally gifted in intelligence, reliable to a fault, and thoughtful to the point of absentmindedness.... plus I'm margianally narcisstic and I have an above average penis! Girth AND length! What more could you want in a man?