Flaming Peeps and Verbal JuJitsu.

[jnevin]

I wish I could reach to a point in my life where I find myself turning away when someone confronts me. I really do. I wear my heart on my sleeve, and it cause me a great deal of anguish. When someone attacks me, usually physically, it ends up with them seriously hurt, and I don't like it. I hope to someday overcome this childish behavior and not be so confrontational, especially that I'm married now...maybe it will come with time and age. Maybe.

I used to, and still do I guess, get so mad when someone would provoke me I'd feel dizzy. If I didn't do anything and walked away I'd be so livid for the rest of the night nobody would want to be around me. Once when that happened, 2 hours later I was still so pissed I punched a door off its hinges in my house. I had solid wood antique doors in that house. The fucking thing broke my lcd and my hand still has some pain from it. I learned you just have to let shit go because letting some other asshole ruin my day was really weak on my part.

 

[the_alcatraz]

I used to, and still do I guess, get so mad when someone would provoke me I'd feel dizzy. If I didn't do anything and walked away I'd be so livid for the rest of the night nobody would want to be around me. Once when that happened, 2 hours later I was still so pissed I punched a door off its hinges in my house. I had solid wood antique doors in that house. The fucking thing broke my lcd and my hand still has some pain from it. I learned you just have to let shit go because letting some other asshole ruin my day was really weak on my part.

Hitting the door is one thing. It's hitting someone in the face and breaking his face and then being interrogated that's quite another.

But, you're completely right. I guess that's what it means to be at peace with one's self. If I could be that way, I'd be a much happier person.

 

[jnevin]

Hitting the door is one thing. It's hitting someone in the face and breaking his face and then being interrogated that's quite another.

But, you're completely right. I guess that's what it means to be at peace with one's self. If I could be that way, I'd be a much happier person.

Dude, if I'm at peace with myself bacon is halaal.

 

[the_alcatraz]

Dude, if I'm at peace with myself bacon is halaal.

lol

That's actually a good analogy. I'm impressed.

 

[Oceano]

When you are attacked IRL or in a hostile situation and verbally jabbed at, how cool do you remain? Are you flame retardant and keep a cool head, or do you just go with the norepinephrine rush and amydala hijacking and unleash on your foe?

Have you gotten more reactive or less reactive through the years of maturation?
No right or wrong answer here.

Does the online communication differ than IRL for you? Do you express the same patterns IRL and Online?

Have your verbal skillz to take down and ground and pound foes increased or sharpened due to experience and, or online communication?

Just Curious.

I kill an pwn niccaz verbally online and offline

 

[javaguru]

depends on the situation

i would never ever get into a physical fight, I've never been attacked in that way

my anger at verbal attacks irl - comes on fast and strong. I will either be a snotty bitch in defense or I will sit and just stew in anger.

I think you tend toward the former as opposed to the latter on EF.

 

[cindylou]

I think you tend toward the former as opposed to the latter on EF.

 

[JR76]

I used to, and still do I guess, get so mad when someone would provoke me I'd feel dizzy. If I didn't do anything and walked away I'd be so livid for the rest of the night nobody would want to be around me. Once when that happened, 2 hours later I was still so pissed I punched a door off its hinges in my house. I had solid wood antique doors in that house. The fucking thing broke my lcd and my hand still has some pain from it. I learned you just have to let shit go because letting some other asshole ruin my day was really weak on my part.

Jesus, no wonder so many of you fuckers have done time! lol

 

[jnevin]

Jesus, no wonder so many of you fuckers have done time! lol

I've never done time. I was arrested once when I was 19 (for assault), but I wasn't charged because I fought in self defense. I just took it farther than I had to. Clean record for me. Otherwise I wouldn't be able to do loans.

 

[layinback]

When you are attacked IRL or in a hostile situation and verbally jabbed at, how cool do you remain? Are you flame retardant and keep a cool head, or do you just go with the norepinephrine rush and amydala hijacking and unleash on your foe?

Have you gotten more reactive or less reactive through the years of maturation?
No right or wrong answer here.

Does the online communication differ than IRL for you? Do you express the same patterns IRL and Online?

Have your verbal skillz to take down and ground and pound foes increased or sharpened due to experience and, or online communication?

Just Curious.

i have mellowed with the years and i don't find it necessary to "shred" people
anymore. there are a few exceptions. if someone is smug and condescending,
i can lower the bar sometimes. however, there is no *flying off the handle,*
being reactive is not productive. if you fuck with my family, that's another
story.