hum....I can't really tell you how to feel or what should work for you because everyone is motivated by different things but I usually tell myself that the fitness girls in the magazines are no better than me and if they can do great things with their bodies then so can I. No one is above me, all that matters is HOW BAD DO I WANT IT? Pretty damn bad. When I'm wearing my bikini at the pool or on the beach this summer I want women to wisper to their friends "I want a body like that!" and when guys see me I want them to wish their girls had the discipline and motivation to put in the hard work to achieve a nice healthy physique.
I know you love your wife, but wouldn't it be nice to be wanted, adored or lusted after by a beautiful lady you just happen to meet. Or just think of how much money you are spending on the AS, you are making an investment in your body, don't blow it!