i had a huge shredded dude all over me one night years ago at an after hours club in nyc. i mean HUGE and SHREDDED - i clearly remember him saying 260 and he was about 5'8". i was doing everything i could to be nice and try and be like get lost without being a loud mouth. finally my one buddy who was an equal monster told the dude to fuck off im not a fag. it worked. i suggest you tell the guy to save it, your not playing on that team.