Ever seen your first love's kids?

[mountain muscle]

Very strange for me.
She sent me pics, because we are still friends and I hope we will always be.
He is such a cutie, I would attach pics if I could.
Strange though I am still protective over her even after all these years, and strange I am after she has had a child.

Anyone else been through this? This is the second time for me as far as ex's go. But first love, she just sent me pics. Brought tears to my eyes when I saw him.

 

[seizer]

Life is beautiful, isnt it?

 

[mountain muscle]

Life is beautiful, isnt it?

Absolutely it is.

Anyway, back to the question...

 

[silverfish]

Yes, makes me friggin sick. I see her and her kids when I pick up my nephew from pre-scool some days. On a happier note, she did put on a few pounds after 2 kids so that in itself is satisfying.

 

[Marauder79]

wow i cant imagine seeing that....

so who are you with now? obviously not someone you love as much as her...

do you feel guilty? how do you stay attracted?

 

[mountain muscle]

wow i cant imagine seeing that....

so who are you with now? obviously not someone you love as much as her...

do you feel guilty? how do you stay attracted?

You assume a lot bro.

Just a shock to hear about and see her kids, there is a long history between us before and a bit after she met her husband.
Do I feel guilty? NO. I am glad to see her son and her happy. Just brought back old memories. Apparently for you I cannot have those without feeling guilty or not loving somone I am with?
Please explain.

 

[jerseyart]

No I haven't, but it would probably feel strange.

But I'd be happy for any of them, and genuinely wish them the best.

 

[KillahBee]

Not really sure I ever had a first love or who that would be. But I have seen a lot of past girlfriends' kids and it's more sad than weird.

 

[PBR]

no i have not...and i do know that this would not bother me...however, seeing my ex- wife and her 2 daughters, will just about wreck me for days...

 

[PICK3]

Seen em? I've dated them.

Jerry! Jerry! Jerry!