Engagement Rings...

[needtogetaas]

Really?

Huh??

Your wife has been talking to me about upgrading. But, I didn't think she was talking about her ring??????

ill be the only one peeing on angel for a wile at least.

 

[yonkers weights]

Very true. Priorites....

Depends on the stuff he has already.

If he spends "X" amount of dollars for TV's nice houses and cars ALREADY and then buys you some piece of shit ring (or claims he has no money ) then thats where his priorities are at. You are obviously not important, and it will always be that way.

If he spends more money on a TV, or a second car than a ring you will wear forever....thats a problem!

And if he really does not have enough money to buy a ring, or has to put it on credit, why not wait??? People are always in a hurry to get married. Wait until he has enough money to pay for it ; a nice one ; in cash. If he cant afford a ring, maybe it wont hurt to wait? I bet money problems would suck right off the bat. There are enough things to fight about. lol.

I think the ring = sacrifice. I know a guy my SIL is seeing and is living with. No ring yet but he has motorcycles, and multiple cars. Hmmmmmm. Cant even sell one bike for a ring for that awesome girl? Guess not.

 

[velvett]

I typically don't like to wear rings - I have a few thumb rings that I will wear but not while working. I have a lot of rings that I received as gifts from my family, they were big on investing in jewels and jewelry but even then I never wore them - I hate the way they feel around my fingers.

I have admired many beautiful rings on woman and I think wow that just looks beautiful. I am big on scale - if a ring is too small or too large on the hand it really drives me - like those people who have to pick off lint from a strangers lapel, I think jewelry, watches and sunglasses that are the wrong size for someone is very distracting.

Anywho.

I don't have one - won't agree to wear one (or a band for that matter) and I would feel guilty having my better half pay for something that would remain in a box in a safe.


That said I love jewelry, I appreciate the design and workmanship but I really don't care for wearing it.

 

[all the whey]

ill be the only one peeing on angel for a wile at least.

Damn!

I am jealous.

But, she is one lucky lady!!!!!!!!!!!!!#$!@@!

 

[cindylou]

wow this is how you look at things wtf is this shit...you got your mind in the wrong place....the amount of money a guy will put on your finger dont mean shit

what if they guy just lost his job..maybe he could get nice things before but cant now...what if in his mind he would rather use the money to but you guys a nice house latter down the rode..what if he knows its going to cost him a mint because your a materialistic bitch and your going to want the biggest and best wedding because you think he has cash....

IMO he should have a house already.



I'm married already though, so I guess whatever outlook I have does not apply anymore

 

[blueta2]

OK

But, what does this have to do with covergirl and bluta not liking each other?

I knew that girl didn't like me. Is that what you heard on the PM circuit?
It's b/c I'm prettier isn't it?!













;-)

 

[covergrl80]

I knew that girl didn't like me. Is that what you heard on the PM circuit?
It's b/c I'm prettier isn't it?!













;-)

LOL! stop being silly

 

[wootoom]

Its a symbol of love. i dont think the size of the rock matters at all from a husbands point of view lol.

 

[Jon79]

I knew that girl didn't like me. Is that what you heard on the PM circuit?
It's b/c I'm prettier isn't it?!













;-)

ppffffftttttt

 

[Bikini Mod]

Well I never had an engagement ring, nor did I ever have a formal proposal. We got married in my old apartment in Jersey on Halloween in costumes, immediate family and close friend - the whole thing (ncluding our sterling silver rings, which though they are unique certainly did not break the bank and my sister bought those too!) cost less than 400$... if that.

I married a man that had ZERO assets, was actually living in his office while sending me every bit of money that he had. (I would have shot him if I'd known.)

But he WANTS to get me and I WANT an EXQUISITE engagement ring. On his part, because he had spent soooooooo much for women in the past who (he claims) were far less deserving of such an elegant luxury - he wants to give me the world. On my part because I don't care about a lot of fancy jewelry that ends up in a box. However, I do want THAT ONE stunning piece. Obviously, I didn't marry my man for his money, 'cause he had none. LOL And I KNOW he didn't marry me for my ass, because NO ASS is worth all the difficulty that comes along with being in my life.

For us it is something that WE BOTH want... so as soon as we pay off all the scurge of the earth attorneys (ya'll have NO CLUE what this is costing, I still owe an UNGODLY amount and we aren't NEAR done yet) and my children are safe and sound and we have more than enough money in the bank you better believe I will have my ring... Why? BECAUSE I WANT ONE and MY HUSBAND WANTS TO GIVE ME ONE.... what is the harm in that?