does anyone else have an ex that drives you FUCKING INSANE

[kd]

Do you have kids together?

If you don't, I don't understand why you would want to keep in contact with her.

Anyways here are my suggestions:

1. Call Display
2. Call Block
3. Auto email delete/block
4. Unlisted number
5. Tell her if she talks about anything else but your kids or you you'll be hanging up.
6. Tell her and/or family that you've met someone you really like, and they may not hear from you so much.
7. Change your name..lol...that last ones pretty extreme.

 

[Rex]

As a matter of fact I do.

I dumped her in late September- early October. She constantly calls my number or my cell phone. Has her friends threaten me. Pranks my line at 4am.

I've done the following to attempt to end it:

-Asked her to stop.
-Told her to stop.
-Blocked her number.
-Changed cell phones.
-Haven't called her since when we were dating.

She still calls my number from a friend's house. I'm this close to going after all the friends she has threatening me. It's amazing what no curfew, and a sick mind can do. Or maybe I'll just file harassment charges on her.

I leave for the island in 5 months so after that I'll never have to deal with her again.

 

[toga22]

My Ex....what a awful subject.....lol

He is more involved in my life now than he ever was during the 4 1/2 years of dating. The breakup was awful, and was something he could not accept. He grew crazy and very angry, and he went to the extreme of even breaking into my house and waiting until I got home to ask me questions that were no longer any of his business. He would follow me around, tap into my e-mail and other accounts at work. (We both worked at the same gym.) When none of it was successful, he spread many lies and rumors around to our mutual friends, in attempt to turn them against me. Finally, after a falling out with my boss, I moved to a new gym to teach. Well, I thought I had solved half of my problems, until about a month ago, when he also applied and got hired at the gym I currently work at. It is one of those everyday stresses that won't go away, and it makes getting involved with other men also really difficult. It makes me feel like I always have to be looking over my shoulder. And the idea of him entering into my home when I wasn't there or sleeping scared me something terrible, to the point where I felt I needed and installed a security system.

~toga

 

[Jimsbbc]

Toga22-

That is fucking scary!!! I hope you are able to get that situation under control. It sounds like he has become obsessive and won't let go. If you have to - get a restraining order, he may not have been violent yet, but you never know! Be careful!

 

[Fitnes1]

p0ink-sounds like your ex is a real loser. It sounds like it would be good if you didn't have to have contact w/ her, but you said that was not that easy. What's up w/ exs? They all need to be shipped off to live together somewhere else. My ex works out at the gym I do now and he roams around like he's God's gift to women. Luckily, I can ignore him there because I just work out in a different part of the gym from him. He has brought in a few girls to parade, although they all look nasty. I think it's sort of funny because the person he cheated on me with (his 2nd wife), well, he's already divorced from her, so I guess he's working on wife no. 3.

I'm really much better off now thank goodness.

Oh, I know, we could hook my ex up w/ your ex. hehe

Good luck to you. Do you have someone else in your life now?

 

[Fitnes1]

toga - bless your heart. Be careful as this guy sounds scary. He sounds sort of like a stalker. Luckily, I've never experienced this.....good luck to you.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

man you don't know anything about breaking up. if you want get rid of chick then do everything that pisses her off. tell her everything she doesn't want to hear. for me once i get rid of chick, it's over and there is no comeback. damn, i am good. then there are the psycho chicks, ummmm, well, then ummmm, run and hide.