do you mind when your lady goes out to a club with the girls?

[Dial_tone]

I'm just saying that regardless of where or how often your partner gets hit on it's all irrelevant if they say no everytime.

 

[bodytemple75]

True.......Exactly true. My whole gripe was I myself would not like my girl to put me in that situation though. I know she is for me an only me, but at one time I was one of those drunken bafoons at night clubs/bars. I know we/ they can get out of hand sometimes with the touchy feely or even violent more and more nowadays. Me,..I was always a gentleman tho... Just less bs for me to worry about.

 

[gab9681]

My old lady goes out every Wednesday night with the girls. They go out, get loaded, dance, and have fun. All but about two of her friends are married, and we are all still very young, average age in our group is 23. They get hit on all the time and constantly have guys all over them. I don't care though, because I know she will never cross the line, and she is always coming home to me. I like to think that there are a bunch of guys out there that think my old lady is good looking and cool as hell. I go out with my boys without her probably once a month or so. We drink, dance, have fun and sure we have the chickies all over us, but again, I am not going to fuck up a solid relationship over someone I met in a bar. It all comes down to trust.

 

[bodytemple75]

Good post.

 

[gtrcivic]

last few times i did hook up was from someone i met at work....but as far as bars/clubs..i would go to them with my single friends and check out whats out there.. end of the night, my gf knew i was going back to her place....only if she knew what i was doing at work !!

 

[DEEZPAZ]

You have to have trust b/c if you don't then you will lose your mind everytime they go out!!! If shes going to cheat she will cheat no matter where she goes!! If you can't deal then you should not be w/ her b/c it will totally eat you up inside!!!

 

[The Greatest]

you always come across cooler and more attractive when you let your gal have some freedom. If you truely are the man, then shell' go out get hit on realize how many losers are out there and be back in time to fuck your brains out.

See people forget that 95percent of the guys who dwell at clubs are boys who never learned to grow up...then again she could meet some rich pro athlete and in that case the odds were just not in your favor.