do you mind when your lady goes out to a club with the girls?

[MR Pink]

I'm with DT one this one

 

[bodytemple75]

This is just a crude, more blatently obvious example,....but if a comitted guy(married or relationship) hangs out at a local brothel and never does anything,....would that be ok? Is he there for the conversation? Or does something just seem "off" regardless of the fact that he has never slept with anyone there yet? C'mon, can't be that blind or niave to this...





I apoligize if I offend anyone in a relationship. Sorry that was not my intent. This is just my "opinion" on the subject.

 

[Dial_tone]

This is just a crude, more blatently obvious example,....but if a comitted guy(married or relationship) hangs out at a local brothel and never does anything,....would that be ok? Is he there for the conversation?Or does something never slept with anyone there yet? ThaC'mon, can't be that blind... just not seem right, regardless of the fact he has

That's even more apples and oranges than werd's was. You go to a brothel to get laid and to get laid only. Bottom line if you're sweating your girl too much to let her go out to a club then she has you, but you DEFINITELY don't have her.

 

[Werd]

That's even more apples and oranges than werd's was. You go to a brothel to get laid and to get laid only. Bottom line if you're sweating your girl too much to let her go out to a club then she has you, but you DEFINITELY don't have her.

WERD

PS - maybe your chick isn't interested in going down in the little old lady that is checking her groceries but I bet the young kid at the end of the counter is doing waaaaaaaaay more than just bagging her peaches! LOL

No need to get upset darlin'. I totally hear what you are saying, but the problem is that you are not hearing what WE are saying.

 

[bodytemple75]

That's even more apples and oranges than werd's was. You go to a brothel to get laid and to get laid only. Bottom line if you're sweating your girl too much to let her go out to a club then she has you, but you DEFINITELY don't have her.

Dial.... you'r missing the point bro


For one thing,...my girl nor I go out to clubs or bars. I did when I was single, so did she. We both just phased out of them. Maybe on a vacation to a club together. We would have no reason to go alone or seperate with the atmosphere they have. Really what would be the point? I mean c'mon....you are going to tell me any guy goes to a club to dance and listen to the music? Or to get laid? We go to get laid, if we go alone or with other guys. Now girls, may not go outright for the sex, but I am sure they do not mind it as much. As for my girl.....you are talking about shit you just are completely and utterly unaware of bro.... My girl and I have eachother regardless of what you think.

Now I say this since i believe i know what i am talking about with the mindset of today. I have seen too many bullshit stories from chicks or friends many a time this stuff happens. Some dude or his chick starts going to bars/clubs a lot with the single friends,.....a few months later shehe is screwing somebody else or wants to break up...whatever. They break up eventually or shit falls down. Now maybe this sounds paraniod to you and insecure, but if one did not suspect this as odd behavior as if it happened a lot,...this is just being niave mang.

 

[Werd]

I am not saying that what YOU are saying could never happen. But for you to say that peeps like me and DT and a few others are in the 1% is just plain wrong.

 

[bodytemple75]

Hey,

I admitt my opinions on the subject may be biased or opinionated, but from experience and good reason by my mindset. I always went to bars and clubs to get laid. Plain and simple, no other reason, as did all my friends and guys I knew.... Maybe I am jumping the gun, but maybe this does exist...Anything is possible. One male's opinion on the subject. As far as females who I knew in clubs/ bars...they basically went for the same, but just a tad more discrete.... but ultimately the same.

My opinion on this is this way,.....probably because of what I was exposed and used to. I f you people say you are fine going without your partner, vice versa...Who the hell am I to dispute that. Good for you. More power to you.




Happy to hear...

Gl

 

[Dial_tone]

Whether it's a club, a bar, a restaurant or the bowling alley, anyone who has to call around and check up on their partner to make sure they're doing what they said they were gonna do just needs to break up. There are opportunites to mess around anywhere men and women are in the same place.

 

[bodytemple75]

I admitt,....my view on the subject seemed to be a bit "one-sided." I am sorry if it appeared so. I was probably brought to that minset and opinion because this is wht I experienced growing up, and knew to be true around me, and the people I hung out with or were around/ associated w/. If you guys say so,.... I believe you.

 

[bodytemple75]

Clubs or bars are suspect in my opinion, for me. That is all I am saying. From my experience and from what I believe to be true,...9-10 times it calls for some kind of disaster if your parter goes without you on a regular basis. Thsi is just me.....call me insecure, call me whatever..... I just go with the odds. Most couples this happens to, happens for the shitty reason of cheating or anything asociated with. Now with you guys/ gals having brought this new info and views to my attention. I believe you, and belive you if you tell me what you have. I guess I have always considered the negative in any situation first, and just believe with any relationship the odds being less favored in this type of situation. That's me though......



Sorry to offend. I apoligize.

Bt