Do we really have to play games?

[chris302001]

There is no game, only the rules which you set forth and those that you allow yourself to be subject to. I heard some EF member spoutin off about intention creating reality........

 

[Beachboy6294]

There is no game, only the rules which you set forth and those that you allow yourself to be subject to. I heard some EF member spoutin off about intention creating reality........

That is so true!!!

 

[75th]

no fuck no. Im not playing by anyone's rules or games. If Im interested, I have no problems letting you know it. I'm not gonna "wait three days" or some such shit. fuck that. let's be adults and communicate openly. but i dont chase anyone either. if there's no mutual attraction, then Im not interested.

+1

It may have cost me some poon in the past being up front, but I dont like bullshit.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

There's a job for me if I leave now. There might be a better paying job for the wife.

The competition is less then Toronto. The pay is higher. The winters are colder, but drier.

OMG if you move to Calgary that means I have another in.

 

[heavy_duty]

Thanks So here is the total skinny behind all this. I meet this guy last Tuesday we had a great first date. Good conversation a lot the same interest etc. plus a obvious attraction. So yeah he asks me out again for Thursday. I was like heck yeah. Again another great date just great conversation funny makes me laugh etc. Then a really great kiss at the end of the date like wow sparks I haven't felt in a long time. So he does shift work and has 7 days straight long shifts. He says it sucks bad timing as he would like to hang with me more. I am like no worries it is only 7 days. So yeah I am texting him and he is texting back but then I dunno just started feeling like I am text him more then he is me. Maybe I am just over thinking things. But yeah then my friends (girls and guys) are like you have to lay off texting him let him come to you play the game all this crap which is just not me.

Guys do like the chase and the hunt, so it does not have to involve "games". If you chill a bit on the text then he gets to hunt you a bit more. That might be "part of the game" but I dont think it is "playing games" per se. Letting him "come to you" does not mean you are fucking with his head, it just means you're letting a man be a man.

 

[wootoom]

Calgary rocks

 

[-Ariel-]

There is no game, only the rules which you set forth and those that you allow yourself to be subject to. I heard some EF member spoutin off about intention creating reality........

LOL... what a wise person this EF member must be, Casteneda was the first one I read about intention Dr. Chris... but yeah... great post, and could not agree more...
I agree with the sage who remind all of us of this pearl.

 

[jnevin]

I am thinking I am going to be single forever if that is the case. I suck at games.

I was never good at that stuff either. I'm pretty cut and dry. Don't like something, don't try to fix it. I'll return the favor.

 

[heatherrae]

Awww sweet but neither of you live in Toronto

I am being serious here. I dunno I have such a hard time meeting guys I actually have an interest in then once I do. It is like well you can't let him know you like him or he will lose interest. Only text him etc in reply to him blah blah blah. Honestly I am so sick of this crap I am 29 not 12. I just rather be honest and up front rather then all of this.

seems most men are so turned on by the challenge. It is frustrating that you can't just "get real" right away. I feel your pain. I really do.

 

[miplank]

I don't know why you woman are single...


If I were single i'd be your stalker