Define cheating.

[trex74]

Ya i understand what ur saying... Her idea was we don't have any contact for awhile n see what happens I wasn't really down for that but she told me she loves me an she said it in a way that made alot of sense so we both agreed it was the best thing, problem was we both kept giving in and seeing each other and it seemed as if this was all bringing us closer (weired) but the trust was totally gone and we ended it a huge argument. Haven't talked to her since... 2 days now.... Hella depressed, I'm
sure it's over for good, I wish I would of jus gave her her space like we planned on

Actually, my(current) bf and I took a break for a while last year , and got back together again. We are engaged now. We never cheated on each other or anything like that (as far as I know), but we both had issues to deal with in our personal lives that were keeping us from having a great relationship.
It was hard being apart, but I tried to keep my thoughts positive and say "if it is meant to be, it'll happen". It took some time.
2 days isn't very long. Just give her space and see what happens. She'll let you know what's up when she's ready.
I'd recommend you don't sleep with anyone else if you have hopes of getting back together, you know she'll ask you about it.

 

[gstacker]

To me, the ongoing flirting is worse than the random one night fuck. Ongoing flirting shows a CLEAR pattern of neediness above and beyond the existing relationship and thus, that's a MAJOR sign to end things. Not talking once in a while normal flirting, but a consistent pattern.

On the physical, really anything is cheating (kissing, whatever).

And no, you're gone if you cheat. It's that simple.

Harsh but alot of truth in there...

 

[gstacker]

Actually, my(current) bf and I took a break for a while last year , and got back together again. We are engaged now. We never cheated on each other or anything like that (as far as I know), but we both had issues to deal with in our personal lives that were keeping us from having a great relationship.
It was hard being apart, but I tried to keep my thoughts positive and say "if it is meant to be, it'll happen". It took some time.
2 days isn't very long. Just give her space and see what happens. She'll let you know what's up when she's ready.
I'd recommend you don't sleep with anyone else if you have hopes of getting back together, you know she'll ask you about it.

Congrads on ur engagment! Well I deff don't want to get involved with any type of relashinship right now, that's like imposible my hearts still with her.... I'm
a man so no comment on the sex part but I will try n take care of myself for as long as possible but honestly I'm thinkin it will be at least 6montjs to a year an ya I'm a man with man needs... She's very smart n understanding an mature when it comes to that kinda shit anyways so I do t think that would be a isue....

 

[nangiggles]

I dont think u cheated, u lied but u didnt cheat, if I were in ur GF's case Id be pissed and may have trust issues but cant say u cheated, if u were just hanging witht he girl and nothing happened there is no cheating, if you like her there is, if u just lied because u thought she'd be mad or wouldnt understand I totally get you...

 

[gstacker]

I dont think u cheated, u lied but u didnt cheat, if I were in ur GF's case Id be pissed and may have trust issues but cant say u cheated, if u were just hanging witht he girl and nothing happened there is no cheating, if you like her there is, if u just lied because u thought she'd be mad or wouldnt understand I totally get you...

Thanks for siding but I was cheating i new it was wrong right from the start... I tried arguing it but it's not a winning battle I just have to admit it.

 

[sardonicone]

And can u forgive seone who has cheated?

Cheating is whatever my wife tells me it is, that way I stay clear of trouble.

And considering I've had transgressions in the past I was forgiven for, I'd like to believe I could do the same.

 

[mustang_00]

so your gf's friend told her that she saw you out with some other girl? so YOU didn't get a chance to tell your gf?? what exactly happened.

your gf asked about it and you lied i take it?

 

[gstacker]

so your gf's friend told her that she saw you out with some other girl? so YOU didn't get a chance to tell your gf?? what exactly happened.

your gf asked about it and you lied i take it?

was pre meditated and i told her i was going to be home so ya im hella gukity on this one

 

[gstacker]

Jimmy I am going to help you out for your next relationship... hopefully it will be useful for you.
Dont have pictures of other girls in your phone - IF you are serious about the person you are dating.... it will cause problems (which I hope you now know)
Do not talk mention how you are embarrassed to be since with any chick you are seen with by an ex AND get caught saying so.
When in a relationship that you are doing things you dont want to get caught for - delete delete delete... voice mails, texts, emails etc... trust me... leaves no evidence
When you find someone you are serious about - talk to her about how you are feeling and what you expect from her and let her tell you the same thing.
Listen to what she is telling you - Saying it simple, if the relationship or person means anything to you and you know something you and doing or did bothered them, pay attention and address it
Take it slow - You will miss a lot if you don't slow down
If you really care about the person - going out with other girls is not ok.
Doing things behind the persons back is not ok at any point in a relationship Just be open and honest if you are going out
If you are going out with other more then one person you need to let them all know... it is only fair
If you dont trust the other person or vise verse - it is not going to work so move on to the next
If it aint love - beat the pussy until something better comes along does work but at the end of the day... you are still alone.
I don't know what happened with us and I thought this last week together was going really good. I was falling more and more for you everyday. I was beginning to miss you when you were only gone for an hour. In the beginning I trusted you. As time when on - I lost some here and there but thought you were sincere in everything and thought I had nothing to lose. I tried to keep myself emotionally distant so that I wouldn't get hurt at the end. I asked you one night if you were going to hurt me and you said no. Maybe it was never your intent to - I'll never really know. But I couldn't help how I was beginning to feel about you. Those feelings are the only reason why I was willing to work things out with you so many different times. I know there is no prefect relationship... All there is you as a person choosing what you are willing to work on and with who. I didn't want to believe what I heard about you being with another chick on Saturday... But that is something I will not tolerate. I have been on this side a lot and it sucks... yet still can't find myself for once to be the cheater vs the cheated. You may not have done anything with the chick but according your post it was a date. I am not even mad anymore. I doubt I was ever what you wanted - just that place holder until something better comes along.

Anyways, nothing can be changed now cause it's all in the past. I don't understand why you tried so hard to have me back.... doesn't make sense to me.... I guess you wanted the best of both worlds? Good thing you not much of a club goer - dont have to worry about running into you.

No hard feeling though Jimmy. wish you luck in life.

Oh please dont reply. let's just end it here. I am going to send you all the pics I have from your bday for you to have k.

Bye Hun.

 

[mustang_00]

yeah but did you bang this chick or just went out with her. what happened?? i want extreme detail. mainly for masturbational purposes.