Daisy wants me back.......

[heavy_duty]

I dont know what do....i still love her in a way but i dont feel like i could ever go back....i have started a new chapter in my life...it feels like a trap...im happy right now but i love my kids more than anything in the world and would love to see them everyday and have my family back together again..its the most difficult thing i have and ever will have to deal with in my life..i still have feelings but i feel the damage has been done...i went through hell for 6 months of my life was on anti-depressants to pretty much stay alive...i know i should do whats right for me but its so difficult....i dont think she can change and it would take so long to build that trust back again....i put a ring on her finger for a reason because i loved her and i always will but i feel the damage is too much too handle...please no fucking stupid posts in this thread...i could never handle getting hurt or going through this process again either.

been there bro. therapy worked for us.

 

[heavy_duty]

Walk tall. Walk proud. Walk away.

Besides, what if she got knocked up and is plotting to trick you into being baby's daddy?

Forget walk, run.

She comes back on his terms:
(1) Pregnancy test
(2) HIV test
(3) Therapy

 

[blueta2]

I think you should go to couples counceling first before you even consider moving back in together. This way there is time before you invest your feelings back into her to see if she flips again or not. Additionaly you can see if your able to work through the issues that caused the break up. If she is not willing to do that then IMO she is not serious and will like jerk you around down the road.

Bingo!

I took my ex of 11 yrs back when he came asking, and 3 months later, he left again.

 

[blueta2]

The big thing in my opinion is that she was postpartum, not saying that is a good reason or anything to cheat but she was for sure not of sound mind for a while not sure is she is now either that is why I suggested counceling.

Great advice...QT is on a roll today

 

[ortiz34]

been there, had the same scenario

changed the locks on the house, and gave her the sailors salute

She wanted me back the moment I started to move on.

I can't tell you what to do, you need to make your own desicions.
I wish you and your kids the best.

 

[fistfullofsteel]

Bingo!

I took my ex of 11 yrs back when he came asking, and 3 months later, he left again.

strays will always be strays. they can't stay committed.

 

[puddlemonkey]

She wanted me back the moment I started to move on.

Yep, my mother did the same to my father. As soon as he finally started to move on a couple years later, she all the sudden wants him back. Well, she didn't really want him back, she just wanted to know if she could have him back. Women are fucked up like this.

 

[nimbus]

it will never be the same again.

 

[ortiz34]

post partum is real though brosky

If she is honest and REALLY wants to work it out, it may be worth a shot. With the kids and all it means so much.

Either way, things have a way of working themselves out.

 

[heavy_duty]

Also sometimes you have to go through a couple of marriage counselors before you find one you like.
our first one was crazy 2nd one was great (female)