a little late to add my info, but i was in a similiar situation (minus kids and marriage)
gal cheated on me, we broke up, then she came groveling back and i accepted
guess what happened, she cheated on me again
NO!
be careful bro. Slow, slow, slow. With much counselling. Don't jump back into a relationship too quickly. Trust was broken, don't be too quick to give it back. Use your head. Think logically as much as you can, trying to keep emotions out of the thought process. Emotions cloud good judgement.
a little late to add my info, but i was in a similiar situation (minus kids and marriage)
gal cheated on me, we broke up, then she came groveling back and i accepted
guess what happened, she cheated on me again
NO!
Yup. Cheating is more about the person than it is the specific relationship.
It's far better to say: "This isn't working" and move on. Even if you get elbow-deep into new poonany 5 minutes later, at least you ended the relationship you're in.
It's far better to say: "This isn't working" and move on. Even if you get elbow-deep into new poonany 5 minutes later, at least you ended the relationship you're in.
I was just going through a similar situation. I still love her, and her daughter, but fuck all hell if I could go back to the misery that was our demise. You think of the good times and that's what brings you back IMO. It never gets as good as it once was. Just my 3 cents bro. yeah that's right 3 cents. Movin up in this bitch!
women are like monkeys swing from branch to branch when it comes to changing men. They need to make sure they have a firm grip on the next branch before they can let go of the other.
Someone fucks you over once...they WILL do it again...the whole postpartum depression excuse to cheat is just that...an excuse.