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MichaelScott
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be careful woots i wish you the best
Daisy wants me back.......
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mrplunkey
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Its entirely possible that it was both your faults -- but just make sure you're not trying to rewrite history so you'll have a better reason to reconcile.
Not trying to be an ass, but men lie to themselves in situations like this. And the biggest lies you'll ever fall for are the ones you tell yourself.
Seriously, people make mistakes and people learn from those mistakes. It is friggin possible!!!
We don't know the whole story, we only know what woot has told us. We don't know all of the specifics on their marriage. It can be fixed, they can get through this.
Woot, listen Do not, and I mean DONT do this because you want those boys to have a 2 parent home, don't do it because you feel obligated to....
Go back and be with your wife because every morning that you wake up and she is not there makes your day worse. Because even though you are seperated her smile still makes your heart skip a beat, still makes you happier, and still makes your day. Go back to her because even though you both have caused each other pain you realize that it is more painful being apart...
Woot, go back to your wife because you want to be with your wife, because you want to be her husband, and because you want to try again.
And if none of this rings a bell to you, then move on for everyone including your own benefit. But def get some couples therapy to help get past the issues.
We don't know the whole story, we only know what woot has told us. We don't know all of the specifics on their marriage. It can be fixed, they can get through this.
Woot, listen Do not, and I mean DONT do this because you want those boys to have a 2 parent home, don't do it because you feel obligated to....
Go back and be with your wife because every morning that you wake up and she is not there makes your day worse. Because even though you are seperated her smile still makes your heart skip a beat, still makes you happier, and still makes your day. Go back to her because even though you both have caused each other pain you realize that it is more painful being apart...
Woot, go back to your wife because you want to be with your wife, because you want to be her husband, and because you want to try again.
And if none of this rings a bell to you, then move on for everyone including your own benefit. But def get some couples therapy to help get past the issues.
mrplunkey
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AztecWarrior
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Don't do it. I know it would be nice to have the family back reunited, but it's over. Sounds to me like you would want to try, but you are in doutb. She walked out on you bro. Remember all the nights of pain and hell she put you in. Could you go though that again? The fact is she didn't have no regard for you when she left you in the high end. Move on. Just keep being the best father you can be. Goodluck!
AztecWarrior
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I say don't. He was just moving on with his life. Keep pressing forward. In these days of age hardly any marraige last anyways.
this is a Good Point too being 100% objective
still though 99.99% of the time one should be DONE, NO chances for what she did to Woot.....
its HOW she did what she did to him that is the crutch of the bad vibes I feel.......
javaguru
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Some good advice in here Woot. Angel gave some good words, QT did too. All I can say is I was in a similar situation once (minus the kids) and taking her back didn't work. She was cheating again, probably (most certainly) before I even found out.
But, every situation is different. Maybe the postpartum had something to do with it. Maybe she'd have done it anyway. Who knows? But, maybe she's matured now and is truly sorry and really wants to be with you and only you, and realizes what a terrible mistake she's made. Maybe things are going bad with her current bf and you're just her safety net.
If it were me and she's got a boyfriend (hope for the kids' sakes that he is not a live-in), I wouldn't be convinced she had any true or good motives until she got rid of him. Like someone else said, maybe this time you're the other guy? A lot of things to think about here and we can't possibly give you the best advice because we're not living the situation like you are. We can however bring things into light that you may not have thought of, but it's up to you to decide if there's any validity to them.
But, every situation is different. Maybe the postpartum had something to do with it. Maybe she'd have done it anyway. Who knows? But, maybe she's matured now and is truly sorry and really wants to be with you and only you, and realizes what a terrible mistake she's made. Maybe things are going bad with her current bf and you're just her safety net.
If it were me and she's got a boyfriend (hope for the kids' sakes that he is not a live-in), I wouldn't be convinced she had any true or good motives until she got rid of him. Like someone else said, maybe this time you're the other guy? A lot of things to think about here and we can't possibly give you the best advice because we're not living the situation like you are. We can however bring things into light that you may not have thought of, but it's up to you to decide if there's any validity to them.
