Convincing husband about implants

[BatZgirl]

It seems like most men are delighted at the prospect of their wives getting implants. My husband is different. I've never told him I seriously want them, but based on his usual reaction to them, I don't think he'd be too keen on it. Of course, before I got seriously into fitness and so lean, I had a C cup and never felt the need for implants.

$$$ is not the issue, I'm happy to pay myself. I think to him it's the idea of not being "natural", but he has NO idea how much stuff women do just to look natural! I've joked with him about how natural I could be if I stopped shaving, wearing makeup, etc. and he didn't like the idea of that kind of natural LOL!

He doesn't realize how many normal everyday women get implants, not just strippers and actresses who want really big ones. I used to think I could get by with wearing my molded cup bra, but then I think WHY? I've worked hard on my body. I want to wear a bathing suit and not be flat as a pancake or not go in swimming because I'm afraid my "gels" will fall out. And naked, I just don't feel right anymore.

Anyone have suggestions for bringing him around?

I think you should just tell him exactly what you said here, about the fact that you want to look natural especially now that your body is full of muscle. Explain to him that youve worked hard at your body but your breasts look smaller now and you'd feel better looking like a woman

I dunno, thats just my suggestion

 

[BatZgirl]

Maybe you should find out why he doesn't want you to get them. He may be concerned about health risks. Or he may just be turned off by large breasts.

I love a firm A/B cup.

In that case scrap my origional quote I think frorider6 has a point, I agree to his suggestion of finding out why he dont want the implants etc and also he's a guy which means he might now what hes talking about
(Only Kidding frorider6 of course you do)

 

[wyst]

Honestly I think the biggest thing guys are scared of when their ladies get a boob job is that they will become more flirtatious and/or more guys will stare at them. Always seems to come down to security issue.

I've read stories about this...I think there were some studies done somewhere about the rate of divorce breakup increasing post boob job. I'll see if I can dig that article up. I'm not saying I agree with the point, mind you, but it's been a real concern of some guys I've known before when their wives were thinking about it...

 

[FitFossil]

It wasn't so much that it was a boob job, he's just sort of old-fashioned about plastic surgery in general. Several years ago I had surgery to move my chin bone forward - best thing I've ever done. I'd always hated my receeding chin because I thought it made me look meek and goofy. Though not gung-ho, he was agreeable, but he expressed concern that I'd become a surgery junkie like Micheal Jackson. I told him I definitely planned on more surgery in the future such as a facelift, but nothing radical.

The thought of implants never crossed my mind back then because my breasts were fine before I'd gotten into such awesome shape - and a big part of that came as a result of getting my chin fixed.

That's why I was worried what he'd think about implants. This board gave me all kinds of courage, so when I told him AND he was agreeable (although not jumping for joy), it was a pleasant surprise. It was almost a let-down that I couldn't use all the good arguments I got from this board!

 

[Hannibal]

Honestly I think the biggest thing guys are scared of when their ladies get a boob job is that they will become more flirtatious and/or more guys will stare at them. Always seems to come down to security issue.

If a man is so insecure about his relationship that his lady improving her appearance scares him.....then their relationship has problems whether she has A's or D's.....

...maybe he should get off his ass and follow her lead...and improve himself

 

[FitFossil]

If a man is so insecure about his relationship that his lady improving her appearance scares him.....then their relationship has problems whether she has A's or D's.....

...maybe he should get off his ass and follow her lead...and improve himself

No, he's not like that. He really likes that since getting into weights I now wear more trendy clothes that show off my body (even though for the moment they also have to accommodate my molded-cup bra! ). Even though I was thin before, I always wore baggy boring stuff. He was always asking me why I wouldn't show off my figure more, but back then I didn't feel like it was worth showing.