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Convincing husband about implants

Normal people do get implants. There are those of us that used to be reasonably endowed and due to our fitness pursuits experience a significant decline in the bustline. I don't know how others feel, but I've always felt that it is worse to have had and lost than to have never had any at all. I was always comparing myself to how I used to be.

To me it came down to how I felt about myself. I was unhappy about my appearance in bathing suits or nude due to my bustline, but yet proud of the muscles I have worked so hard to build. End of story. Once I realized that my bust was holding me back on how I felt about myself, I went and did something about it. I've had implants for three weeks now and am soooo glad I did it. I don't compete, but am an office professional that works out regularly to have a nice figure. Implants are just the icing on the cake.

My husband was supportive of whatever decision I made and now that I've had it done, he is extremely happy due to the positive impact it's had on my attitude. BTW, even after only three weeks, I think mine look and feel natural. I went into the doctor's office asking for what I had lost. That's all. Nothing unrealistic. To me that was more important than anything.

I think you just need to explain how you feel to your husband and if he understands, he should be supportive in whatever you choose to do.
 
i think saying the things u have just said here...to him... would work well!:) explain to him how u feel in a bathing suit and how u feel naked. if he knows how happy and more comfortable it will make u i think he will more up for the idea. i dont think there is ANY reason why anyone shouldnt be 100% comfortable in their own skin. good luck sweetie and keep us updated:)
 
I think he wants you to get them but acting like he doesn't want you to so you have to pay for them so he gets his new toys for free!!!:D
 
UPDATE!!

UPDATE! Thanks everyone for all the great advice...IT WORKED! :D

He had no objections! I was absolutely dumbfounded; I was prepared to have to work on him for days or weeks. He didn't exactly jump up for joy. He said I'm fine the way I am but OK if I wanted it, as long as I do my research, which I've been doing all along.

He has thought it's silly how I've been wearing a molded cup bra under my sports bra to the gym so I won't look so flat. But at least now when I get my new twins, it won't be such a shocker. WHOOPEE! (but now I'm getting a little nervous reading about all those post-op pain stories...)
 
I'll second that WOO-HOO!!! I'm glad he's supporting the decision you've made.

As for pain... eh, you can take it!!! :D
 
Its well worth it and you quickly forget the pain trust me:)
 
Congrats FF - there's a man who is more interested in supporting what you want than what other people think or money or anything else!

The only thing you have to do now is be responsible about doing your research for a successful result. (Which I have NO doubt you will do!) As far as post op pain - that's what pain killers are for. And it will be over before you know it. In the big picture, a couple days of post op pain & discomfort should be NOTHING to someone who has subjected herself to the joys of tearing & rebuilding muscle, low carbing & choking down protein mix on a daily basis. -- walk in the park!

Looking forward to meeting "the girls"!
 
spatterson said:
WOOHOO! Way to go! I can't believe I'm cheering because you get to make a decision about your OWN body... OH WELL! WOO HOO! I fully expect update pics post-op... :)

I have never understood why a woman would have to CONVINCE her husband to LET her get implants. It is something she is doing to feel better about herself. It is someting that she wants to IMPROVE about her body.

I mean if you love your wife "as is"...what would be the objection to her improving herself....especially when as men we get to "benefit" from this improvement :p
 
Honestly I think the biggest thing guys are scared of when their ladies get a boob job is that they will become more flirtatious and/or more guys will stare at them. Always seems to come down to security issue.
 
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