cheated on wife. got herpes. wtf do i do?

[grlpwrd]

I'm thinking now......Have you been tested for HIV? You contracted herpes and there's a chance you could be infected with something else. That's why I encourage you to tell her the truth. She should get checked and tested because there could be more than just herpes she has to deal with.

 

[Machiavellian Muscle]

Bro that sucks b/c there are people that cheat all the time and don't get shit, but you do it once and BAAAMMMM!!!!! She is going to think that cheat all the time to get this and more than likely will not believe you. Once the trust is gone its over. Even if she does forgive you, she will have something over you and you loose all your pimp hand.

 

[Zerxes]

Bro that sucks b/c there are people that cheat all the time and don't get shit, but you do it once and BAAAMMMM!!!!! She is going to think that cheat all the time to get this and more than likely will not believe you. Once the trust is gone its over. Even if she does forgive you, she will have something over you and you loose all your pimp hand.

Did I just read "Pimp Hand"? Oi friggin veh. Ok homeboy.

 

[louden_swain]

Damn dude!! I wish you and your wife luck!

 

[greddyspeed916]

so you cant give herpes do someone if the lesions arnt't visible?? what about something like hpv which are warts. can u still get hpv if the warts are not visible?? thanks.

 

[b fold the truth]

Someday people will understand what it means to be totally honest, truthful, and what it really means to respect yourself and others.

Be honest, tell her the truth, suffer the consequences. Realize that YOU may have just put HER life in danger too...

B True

 

[Ceebs]

Be honest, tell her the truth, suffer the consequences. Realize that YOU may have just put HER life in danger too...

Couldn't agree more. Honesty and respect should be the foundations of all personal relationships - especially so if you're talking something lifelong like marriage.

To be honest, to be respectful - those things show strength. And they should far outshine a moment of weakness.

Come clean. Please. Once she gets over the shock, hopefully she'll appreciate the mature and respectful way that you put the news, and your bond may wind up stronger for it.

 

[Tarheel]

Grow some balls and fess up. You may retain some respectability that way.

You may want to consider this as proof there is a God.

 

[conan69]

You should be honest

Not to beat a dead horse but i love the fact that you were punished for cheating!

It sucks that it is herpes, maybe if it was the clap it would have taught you a lesson, so unfortunately you recieved the gift that keeps on giving!!!

Sorry Man!

 

[Austin316]

tell her, and from now on, you better believe in Karma, you got what you deserved, your wife doesn't deserve it though, so fess up