Can you ever really recover from a broken heart?

[alien amp pharm]

Dang, relationships can really suck.

I agree. Let's just 'do it' and foget about all that lovey dovey crap. mmKay?

 

[awittyusername]

I know Klu didn't tell my secret!!! damnit... I can skip and chew gum at the same time but not walk and chew it....What's wrong with that picture??

You know its Ironic she said that about you....Since you told me klu didn't even have enough teeth to chew gum.

 

[vinylgroover]

Did you "say" you would fight for her or are you actually putting those efforts out there? Another question, are you walking away because you thinks it's best for the two of and you really do love her? Or, is she pushing you away?


I'm not sure about the "time heals all" comment. You can never really predict what true love will do to you.


Dang, relationships can really suck.

she's pushing me away. We are both at different stages in our lives and she doesn't think it can work.....she has too many doubts.

I told her i would fight for her, but what 'efforts' can i make? I don't know what else i can do to convine her it will work and to erase her doubts.

she is 42, divorced, 2 kids. I'm 32, no kids. She feels she would be holding me back from doing the things she feels i need to experience in life. I respect her for that, but at the same time, i'm prepared to commit to her. Call me silly, but that's how i feel.

 

[alien amp pharm]

She feels she would be holding me back from doing the things she feels i need to experience in life. I respect her for that, but at the same time, i'm prepared to commit to her. Call me silly, but that's how i feel.

sounds like a cop-out to me.

more like a "it's not you, it's me" kinda thing.

 

[superqt4u2nv]

VG so sorry to hear your hurting hun but you will get through it after the darkness there is always light.

 

[awittyusername]

she's pushing me away. We are both at different stages in our lives and she doesn't think it can work.....she has too many doubts.

I told her i would fight for her, but what 'efforts' can i make? I don't know what else i can do to convine her it will work and to erase her doubts.

she is 42, divorced, 2 kids. I'm 32, no kids. She feels she would be holding me back from doing the things she feels i need to experience in life. I respect her for that, but at the same time, i'm prepared to commit to her. Call me silly, but that's how i feel.

Damn!!! 42 divorced!! I love those girls. That is why I pretty much only go out with girls over 40....They will walk away when its over. The 25-30yr olds latch onto you...until they can find someone else.

Anyway. Why do you have to fight for her? Does she have other guys interested that she is holding over your head?

 

[PICK3]

she's pushing me away. We are both at different stages in our lives and she doesn't think it can work.....she has too many doubts.

I told her i would fight for her, but what 'efforts' can i make? I don't know what else i can do to convine her it will work and to erase her doubts.

she is 42, divorced, 2 kids. I'm 32, no kids. She feels she would be holding me back from doing the things she feels i need to experience in life. I respect her for that, but at the same time, i'm prepared to commit to her. Call me silly, but that's how i feel.

Sorry to have fun at your expense, bor.

If she's really "the one" I wish you the best of luck.

 

[habitualhealth]

she's pushing me away. We are both at different stages in our lives and she doesn't think it can work.....she has too many doubts.

I told her i would fight for her, but what 'efforts' can i make? I don't know what else i can do to convine her it will work and to erase her doubts.

she is 42, divorced, 2 kids. I'm 32, no kids. She feels she would be holding me back from doing the things she feels i need to experience in life. I respect her for that, but at the same time, i'm prepared to commit to her. Call me silly, but that's how i feel.

No no, not silly at all. What if her doubts and fears about the relationship ARE in fact weighing on you and you're fighting so hard for her you dont realize you are being held back? Sometimes the reality comes into play that what we want...doesn't want us back. Which means we can't have what we want. The way I see it, if she's making excuses or tossing out doubts and fears, she's not ready to commit to you. "Being at different places in life" is an excuse. I've found where the direct truth would be the easiest solution....it never seems to be what comes out. Therefore, you're left on an emotional rollercoaster wondering "what if", "why", "how can I", "maybe if"...etc. Now, though what I say may seem applicable, it still doesn't dismiss the love you have in your heart for her. I wish I could offer a solution to get over that but ...that's where the "ugh" factor comes into play. Truth is, when someone is pushing you away...your efforts are really worthless. (not to sound abrasive or harsh....but i've been there so I can empathize)

 

[habitualhealth]

sounds like a cop-out to me.

more like a "it's not you, it's me" kinda thing.

Guess you get this alot huh Dr. Phil?

 

[alien amp pharm]

Guess you get this alot huh Dr. Phil?

All the time,HungryHippo