Can you ever really recover from a broken heart?

[vinylgroover]

so how does she feel about you

she has told me i'm wonderful, that she's so lucky to have someone like me love her etc etc........when someone tells you that if she doesn't pull back she will fall in love with you, it's a hard pill to swallow.

The first time she pushed me away she was confused and crying.......she was torn because she felt so good around me and knew that she could easily fall in love with me, but her instincts kept telling her that it couldn't work given our age gap and respective stages in our lives.

I guess when we got back together the second time, she rationalised in her own mind that we would be intimate friends until we both found someone else........however,as time went on, my heart kept giving and giving until i was all the way in. I only found out how much in love i was when the thought of losing her hit me. And it hit me hard.

 

[Spanky11]

I think that strangely enough you will forget the pain once you meet someone new.

I know its hard now, but just focus on the things that you like doing - training, work, hitting shit pipes, whatever.

it takes time, and a new girl to make you forget the old one.

good luck, malaka!

 

[FreakMonster]

Damn that kinda sounds like my situation. Except she's 41 and I'm 29.

 

[Ulcasterdropout]

Or, maybe you'll die drunk, broken hearted, alone in a gutter.

 

[feisty11975]

You know its Ironic she said that about you....Since you told me klu didn't even have enough teeth to chew gum.

lol

 

[Raina]

I think you can but it takes a looooong time. I don't care if you're the one who breaks up or is broken up with, either way it's painful to cut off a connection with someone you love.

 

[*MissFit*]

Broken hearts r hard to mend.. what is it they say.. what do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the one who amde u start

 

[Rex]

either way it's painful to cut off a connection with someone you love.

Unless of course you go overseas, she says she'll wait for you, you come back for a funeral of a family member and the day before you head back to Japan she dumps you, with her having a new b/f 2 weeks later as a kicker. Then it's just painful for the one...I think.

Just a little bitter.

 

[slat1]

I let someone go after 4.5 years. She was the only person I ever loved. I just couldn't give her what she needed at the time.
That sent me into a downward spiral for a few years. I was constantly looking for someone. I never found the right person.
I finally decided to clean my life up an better myself as a person. I stopped looking for someone. I decided that at some point I would by chance meet the person I am supposed to be with. A year or so passed... and wham. By complete chance I met someone that changed my life. I see the world differently. My goals in life are our goals. Its amazing. I thought I knew what love was about. I was wrong. Its so different. I get goose bumps every time I see her or hear her voice. I knew the moment I saw her that I was going to marry her and spend the rest of my life with her.
Get rid of anything or anyone in your life that is dragging you down. Do good things... and... good things will come to you!

 

[strangebrew]

Sweet, another one of these gay threads.

Good luck, orb. She's just a chick.