Please Scroll Down to See Forums Below I think its nuts that you think she will panic and go crazy just because she has had a couple panic attacks. Anything can cause someone to have a panic attack, too many stimulants etc. I had a year where I had panic attacks - its really not a big deal.
are children overrated? came across this article, thought it was interesting
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I think its nuts that you think she will panic and go crazy just because she has had a couple panic attacks. Anything can cause someone to have a panic attack, too many stimulants etc. I had a year where I had panic attacks - its really not a big deal.
I assume you are not the author of this piece? Though I do not see a link or source, so perhaps you are? But then why would you contradict yourself in the very next post? Plus, as you have no kids, I don't see how you could write volumes on the subject of parenting through the teenage years. But then this author has no kids, and yet apparently deems him/herself an expert on the subject. LOL, sounds like some of the 18-20 year old 6 ft. tall 180 lb. kids on the AAS board who have never done a cycle, but are giving out steroid advice.
I think this is the point of view from someone who is a very selfish and arrogant person. Not for the fact they just don't want kids. For that I definitely agree. Someone such as this would be a horrible parent, and god knows we have enough of them already.
"I don't want kids, so I'll just say, 'the truth that we all know is: children are overrated.' This is true because, they would totally screw up MY social life, MY sex life, MY free time, MY, MY, memememememememememememe. I'll also say how my life is so much better than everyone else who has kids, and how I can afford all the things they can't and it's all because I don't have kids (I'm just better)."
Maybe this author should find new friends who aren't as broke as he/she says all of his/her friends are. My wife and I have a kid, and several of our friends have kids, and none of us are hurting financially. I do have some single friends though, who couldn't fucking touch our lifestyle. I wouldn't love to have this author's life. I bet his friends and family hate him too.
I won't say they don't exist, because I found one. But, finding one is like finding a needle in a haystack son. I ran through a LOT of crazies before I got lucky.
she's cheating on you.
and lol @ "turn nuts" bish carries xanies in her purse...she already IS nuts.
again, LOL @ "gonna go crazy"! wtf is wrong with you d00ds? She IS crazy!
Oh, and obviously...
she's cheating on you!
Or....you could do what my hubby did....find a woman that already has a kid (or two, in my case) AFTER the diapers and all that no-sleeping BS....and who are well behaved......I wonder sometimes if my hubby actually wants a baby of his own (because I am done - that would be a deal-breaker), but whenever he's around his twin brother's baby, he is very glad he's never had to change a dirty diaper in his life......
So he didn't just shoplift the pootie? Good guy.
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It is horribly UNDERATED! I never knew what pure love was, heard about it, but until you hold that child, I'm not sure you ever will. I absolutely LOVE being a dad. All of it, the shitty diapers, feeding, and now being coach, playmate, and Dad. As I said before many times, God gave me something that I didn't deserve, and I'll never be able to repay that gift. As I see it, all I can do is try and be the best parent that I can.
In my experience, the parents who aren't thrilled with it, are the same ones who still want to be single, act single even though thery may be married. They probably had a child thinking that it somehow would make them feel loved and wanted in some way, and it didn't. Now, they have the same mental deficites and the pressure of a child/ children. I know several parents who will say that they probably wouldn't do it again, that's the ones who are still at the lake drinking, doing dope, going to bars, cheating on their spouse, many other forms of selfish behaviors, etc. They are obviously still children themselves. Their kids are poorly behaved because they are constantly shoved unwillingly from g-parent to g-parent, left with friends, and little or no disipline.
I don't miss anything, hockey games, baseball games, movies, or any of that. I'm coaching all the sports, and taking them with me to the movies. I did wait till I was older, 37, before I became a parent.
I LOVE it, wouldn't change a thing. The greatest job in the world, being Dad.
signed,
TxB
In my experience, the parents who aren't thrilled with it, are the same ones who still want to be single, act single even though thery may be married. They probably had a child thinking that it somehow would make them feel loved and wanted in some way, and it didn't. Now, they have the same mental deficites and the pressure of a child/ children. I know several parents who will say that they probably wouldn't do it again, that's the ones who are still at the lake drinking, doing dope, going to bars, cheating on their spouse, many other forms of selfish behaviors, etc. They are obviously still children themselves. Their kids are poorly behaved because they are constantly shoved unwillingly from g-parent to g-parent, left with friends, and little or no disipline.
I don't miss anything, hockey games, baseball games, movies, or any of that. I'm coaching all the sports, and taking them with me to the movies. I did wait till I was older, 37, before I became a parent.
I LOVE it, wouldn't change a thing. The greatest job in the world, being Dad.
signed,
TxB
