I need some time to myself, but I look for it in the gym, or just being home alone.
I golf some in the summer & shoot pool a little in the winter. Funny thing is, when she's out, I worry about her(traffic, bank robbers, meteors) & when I'm out, I can't wait to get back home.
Phaded, I think the club scene is what's freaking her out. Like someone suggested, a sports bar, or maybe a pool hall, once a week, would be better.
Welcome to married life.
I need some time to myself, but I look for it in the gym, or just being home alone.
I golf some in the summer & shoot pool a little in the winter. Funny thing is, when she's out, I worry about her(traffic, bank robbers, meteors) & when I'm out, I can't wait to get back home.
Phaded, I think the club scene is what's freaking her out. Like someone suggested, a sports bar, or maybe a pool hall, once a week, would be better.
Welcome to married life.
wifey just gets mad when i go out with my friends.. i dont see why its such a big deal.. she expected me to completely quit going out once we got married.. shit just aint gonna happen.. and it aint even once a week its more like once a month.. but whatever.. i'm in the doghouse.. and i'm sad...
What if the reason your wife or s/o wanted you to check in every 2 hours or let her know an ETA on when youll be home is so that she can make sure she'll have the other guy out of the house before you get home. lol hasnt happened to me but HAS happened to my friends. Not really on topic though but women can be coniveing (sp?) as us guys. I went to a club with the buds one time and a chick approaches me and asks if I wanted to dance with her friend. I said no, and that I had a g/f. She then says "are you sure?" (Uhh why wouldnt I be sure? knowing my luck somewhere there would see me and run their mouth to the whole town) Even though, I turned down a really badass looking chick... I did feel like I did the right thing. I did get kicked in the nuts by my buddies who think otherwise though. lol I know it was off topic but thought I would share.
IMO marriage shouldnt be ball n chain type. However I do believe you have to compromise things and work with each other to make sure not to hurt or go behind one another. TRUST is #1 thing to have for one another.. you dont have that then your gonna run into problems like stated above.