ANY Man here EVER have a positive experience with a woman?

[Big Boricua]

I am one of those "good guys" and always dated "good girls" so my relationships were always good... then I met my wife... 10 years, I guess I am also sedistic ... she's lovely!!!!

 

[danielson]

lol at frack....im sure may has a solution all worked out

i think its got a lot to do with girls our age, sassy69 said some shit a while back that made sense how they arent 100% sure about their own sexuality perhaps havent matured.

 

[Taps]

I've had some great freindships with women...I value the hell out of those. On a more intimate level, well..I don't regret any romantic relationships I've had, but I can't say they were totally positive. Not entirly thier fault, most of it was just me being stupid.

It really saddens me sometimes to see the level of distrust and even outright hatred between the sexes. It seems to me that in order for a relationship to be succusful, one person must alter thier personality in some way. I see it in so many of my male friends, who have essentially been casterated by thier girlfriends/wives. I also see it in the girls I know....strong women I admire, who allways defer to thier man's wishes. Hell, it took my mom 2 marriges and over 50 years to find a guy she's compatable with.

I just can't understand that...why be in a relationship if you can't be yourself and you can't trust the other person?

That being said, I refuse to believe that all women are fucked up. There's some good one's out there somewhere, I know it.

 

[Binky]

That being said, I refuse to believe that all women are fucked up

Believe it! They are!

 

[talonracer]

Just as I thought....so ummm exactly what the fuck am I supposed to do? (dont even think about commenting here may)

Well I for one am taking it upon myself to destroy as many women as I can, make them fall in love with me then dump them and insult them. Fuck it being nice for 34 years hasn't done shit. Lots of revenge stuff on the 'net I'm gonna use it

 

[Sassy69]

sassy69 said some shit a while back that made sense how they arent 100% sure about their own sexuality perhaps havent matured.

Damn! Someone listened! My 36 years finally has helped at least one person! Thx danielson! I just respewed my "shit" on talonracer's thread. Basically if you give up hope, you are just screwing yourself over. You can't control the people you meet, but you can control things about yourself. JenBFL is totally on target -- if you seek out a certain kind of person who may feed a particular insecurity or perceived need that you have, you will probably find it. And of course, the same shit will happen every time. Break the habit & create a new one. It may take some time to learn to understand yourself better, but at least recognize that we have some tendencies that are subconscious and not always healthy. Take a good look at your experiences and try to find the common denominators that seem to screw them up. It can't always be the other person's fault because it takes two and many of our actions are responses to someone else's actions.

Statistically, you will probably run into your share of boneheads, sluts, leeches, etc. But there are people who aren't this, and somewhere among them is your soul mate.

Alot of how people respond to you has to do with your attitude also. If you let a bunch of shitty relationship experiences give you an overall shitty attitude, people will probably read that real fast and just stay away. Or they might misread it and turn it into a really bad situation.

Anyway, just more shit from sassy....

BTW -- its been almost 5 years since my last really wonderful relationship and that fell apart in a very nasty way. Since then I've had a couple really amazingly stupid relationships with these people I categorize as emotional black holes and my most recent, thoroughly expected to be Mr Right, fell apart almost 8 months ago. I haven't had sex and have not found anyone remotely attractive since. But I'm still not negative about it all. I'm not particularly interested in men at the moment, but if I see somethign worth pursuing I'll sure as hell go after it. But I don't let a shitty attitude turn off people around me and I dont' let it keep me from doing the things I want to do to enjoy my life. Any time I spend being in a shitty mood is just that much more time I burned and got that much older.

 

[K2_Exotech]

Good experiences with women:
Blowjobs

anything else does not classify under this category. You do not ever regret a good experience. While I may have loved some women. I regret all that I did. I do not, however, regret the blowjobs.

 

[kd]

Dear, dear, dear.

I have had a positive experience with every woman I have ever dated. All of them.

You know at the end of the date when you feel like having sex, then after you feel rather relieved?

Well, the good part is afterwards.

For me, the positivity was always the moment you walked her to her house and then tied her to the doorknob and skinned her with a penknife.

Perhaps it was the anticipation, perhaps it was the sound of flesh ripping, but it never fails to make me smile.

Just when I get a good point to reply with in my head, I read SG's reply and then I LMAO and forget it......

 

[HighIntensity]

See heres the thing with this thread, my past 2 long relatioships have ended badly, but the time together was great. The last three years of my life were the best times I have ever had. Now does that all get tainted because she fd me up so bad. I don't know.

I guess you got to look at it like the person you dated is dead, at least for me that has helped. The girl I knew was the kindest, sweetest most devoted girl I have and may ever date.

That girl is now gone, in her place is a bitch of a woman, and I can't understand why. Perhaps it is her knew boyfriend, perhaps she loved me so much she has 2 be so mean to fall out of love.

But for three years I had a true love story, a great experience.
It's all over, and im going insane for how she fd me over. But the great memories will always be there.

just my thoughts

 

[Imnotdutch]

My advice to "nice" guys? Treat all women horribly. Yes, you heard CORRECT! The nice girl that you SHOULD take home to mother will lay the smack down and cut your ASS OFF IMMEDIATELY! Why because no girl worth having would tolerate that type of behaviour!

....just my .02

So when you do find the one that you should take home to mom (why do people do that?) she will be running off into the distance.....all you 'll see is a dust trail. So not only do you now have to persuade her that you are actually a nice guy......you also have to hire a PI to find her. I think trying to beanything other than what you are would prob result in her labelling you a two-faced liar piece of garbage. So congratulations, you found the right girl but she wants nothing to do with you.

Besides that, I cant deal with people who put on a particular image just so they can get what they want......