ANY Man here EVER have a positive experience with a woman?

[Zebo]

As usual, bikinimom is wise......

As her peer (notice I didn't say age? lol), and repairing a 20 year old relationship, I can tell you without reservation that there are no answers......

Its a cruel joke designed by God.
Its a miracle we ever get together in the first place. We are hardwired this way and there's not a damn thing you can do about it. Yes, there are individual circumstances and behaviors, but analysis and self-help books will not help you.

My advice, control only what you can...yourself and your emotions.
"Cocky whores" "jerks" etc. Hey, people are who and what they are. Want to really fuck things up? Add children into the mix...hehe
Sit back and enjoy the ride......its been interesting so far.

 

[p0ink]

Every experience i had with a girl started out good but progressively got worst. girls dont like nice guys, instead they prefer someone like their father...you know someone can treat them like shit and not give a fuck about their feelings. they have think it's all a game. they get this attitude of "well i can change him...or maybe i'm a bad girlfriend" they mistake kindness for weakness.

sorry about the generalizations here, but this is more than apparent in every relationship i have been involved in. oh yeah, and why is it all of the really cool girls date such shitheads, but the mean bitches are always available?

 

[Bikini Mod]

Every experience i had with a girl started out good but progressively got worst. girls dont like nice guys, instead they prefer someone like their father...you know someone can treat them like shit and not give a fuck about their feelings. they have think it's all a game. they get this attitude of "well i can change him...or maybe i'm a bad girlfriend" they mistake kindness for weakness.

sorry about the generalizations here, but this is more than apparent in every relationship i have been involved in. oh yeah, and why is it all of the really cool girls date such shitheads, but the mean bitches are always available?

I will not disagree with your statements. For the most part, they are VERY TRUE.

I did purposely seek out a man that would not respect and love me the way I did him because it was what I learned growing up. I thought that if I loved him enough' long enough then he would eventually love me the same in return. See I took a broke guy and tried to fix him. BIG MISTAKE! Was I broke too....HELL YES! The real trouble began when I tried to fix myself and he refused to face up to his own issues. It was then that I decided that I needed to bail for my own sake and for the sake of my girls.

I am NOT blaming my parents (OR MY EX)... they did the best they could with the tools they had and for all that they did do for me - I AM FOREVER GRATEFUL.

My shrink once told me that all parents screw their children up to some degree. Whether or not we choose to rectify this when we are adults IS UP TO US. I believe he called this: MATURITY.

True, true there are sooooooo many good guys out there who can not find a decent girl and must sit back and watch all the "hotties" or sweet girls hopelessly chasing SCUMBAGS.

My advice to "nice" guys? Treat all women horribly. Yes, you heard CORRECT! The nice girl that you SHOULD take home to mother will lay the smack down and cut your ASS OFF IMMEDIATELY! Why because no girl worth having would tolerate that type of behaviour!

....just my .02

 

[Lord_Suston]

Yeah my mom when I was a kid made me PBand J sandwiches for lunch a lot, then when i grew up she said I could make them on my own, hey wait a minute fuck my own mom sucks damn I guess that means no...............

 

[freshr1]

ANY Man here EVER have a positive experience with a woman?

No, not really. I've dated all sorts, and I found that women after a while want what they don't have no matter how good what they have is. I think guys are way more loyal to women than vice versa. That's why I don't get involved in relationships anymore for the time being. Until I'm ready to settle down and get married I refuse to be part of a pseudo-pretend-marriage in a long term relationship. I'll continue to just go out, meet girls and date for fun... and have lots of meaningless sex

 

[Gilbyag]

yep, all the time for the most part. only bad experiences was when they want a relationship and I dont.... I love women!

 

[Saizen]

I think all my women experiences where all positive. Even the one nighters. Ok, some relationships were really bad, but I still look at them as positive and intricate elements that shaped my persona and defined my character. And it's not over by a long shot either. They all made me realize what I did wrong, what turned me on or off, what stimulated me mentally and physically and what not to look for in a person. Everything is about learning and dating is certainly not immune to this. Sometimes we succeed and at times we fall, but we need to get back up dust our selves off and keep at it.

 

[talonracer]

Nope not a single rewarding relationship, and that counts two marriages. Generalizations are bad yea but basically women are all the same. I've dated women who were absolute whores and women that were virgins, both act the same way. They stay with you for a bit but when some guy comes along they think the grass is greener and bolt. The nicer you treat them the more they walk all over you, the meaner you are to them the more they cry and say you don't treat them right. You call them and your smothering, you don't call and your ignoring them. In the beginning they fuck 20 times a day.......oral.....anal........... 6 months down the road it "Is THAT all you think about??" "Don't touch me there you pervert" Women wonder why guys are so fucked up?? That's not tough to figure out

 

[freshr1]

LOL @ talonracer - I agree with you 100%. Here's some karma for ya.

 

[Frackal]

Just as I thought....so ummm exactly what the fuck am I supposed to do? (dont even think about commenting here may)