*~*~*~*After 2 weeks of dating, he tells me he loves me*~*~*~*

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I love you too.

Well, not in *that* way...but like the way a passerby loves a fataly wounded bird.

 

[FarBeyondDriven]

Tell him you'd like him to get freaky with you and one of the other guys your dating, probably not that love word right out of his vocabulary

 

[rushx79]

Such eloquence!

them was jokes..

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

Err..........why?

Hasn't it entered your mind he could be telling the truth.

Everybody here seems to have missed this latter point
completely.

I guess since honest men don't abound, women automatically
assume we're all skirt-chasing maniacs.

Would you rather he ignored you completely and treated you
like crap?

This is just completely kaleidoscopic. I swear some of you women are down-right quirky.

Fonz

I never thought he was lying.......I'm just a little shocked because no one has said that to me, espcially after such a short period of time, makes me wonder what love is to him---only time will tell

Its one thing to be a cool guy, and its another thing to say you love someone----of course I don't want to be treated like crap. I love respect and honesty. If he wants to keep dating me knowing I'm dating others, great, but if he can't hang with it, he can always leave. Not saying I want him to leave, but I would understand if he wanted too.....

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

Just wondering, who is paying for your "dates" , is he or are you splitting the costs evenly?

For one thing, why does that matter? If a guy wants to pay its all good. Most guys won't LET you pay believe it or not.......

But heres the thing. I don't go on typical "dates". For instance this one guy I'm dating loves to dance, so we will meet at a club at a certain time with a bunch of our friends and just have fun. So, yeah, I pay to get in, and I hardly drink, but if I do, I buy my own drinks.

Or we get together at a BBQ over at on of my friends house at hang out---so dating for me is not just a one on one thing. Most of the time, there are other people.

For instance, Jimmy is coming over tonight to hang at my place, Saturday I'm going to the warp tour with Mike and a bunch of other people, and saturday I'm going on a double date with another guy and my best friend. I'm paying my way to go to the warp tour, and tonight won't cost a thing, and saturday, not sure what we are going to do, but I have no problem paying for myself, but guys typically want to pay on the first date.

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

We obviously have different views on dating. You don't have to like the way I treat dating, but it works great for me. I use to do the date only one person at a time thing, but we usually became an item and then you have to break it off, which I feel is pretty dramatic to do with every person you date.

 

[Bikini Mod]

You give me the fucking biggest headache. Why don't you just make a list of questions you want me to answer and I will.

Who pointed out that I am insecure? And what does this have to do with it??? You still haven't answered how I am insecure.


The grandmother comment was an EXAGURATION I am just saying just cause someone is old doesn't mean they are smart.

How am I not a gentelman? I don't get it??? Just cause I respect every single girl to not go out with another girl at the same time, that makes me less of a gentelman than "players?"


BM, remember ... a date is a date ... BY FUCKING DEFENITION IT MEANS IT IS OF ROMANTIC INTENT. So stop your yapping and open a dictionary.

*bikinimom whipping out dictionary*

(I will only list the definitions that pertain to social engagements to spare precious bandwith)

The American Heritage Dictionary, Second College Addition

6 a. An appointment, esp. an engagement to go out socially with a member of the opposite sex. b. A person's companion on a date. 4. To go on a date with.

OK - I don't see where ANY of these definitions have ANYTHING to do with morals/players/ or any OTHER reason why a woman would be considered a skank or a ho because she was engaging in this tpe of social activity with more than one member of the same or opposite sex at the same time. (ie Tue go to movies w/my friend Billy Thr go bowling with my friends Jessie and Billy and a new acquaintance Fred...)

...So you were saying?

I didn't ask a list of questions my love, only ONE -

Have you now or ever engaged in premarital sex/heavy petting of ANY KIND?

It is really very simple - Yes or No.

I will accept your apology now.

 

[Jimsbbc]

A date implies though that you are at least interested in the person (more than friends). Sorry, but that is my .02

Why would you go on a date with someone you just want to be friends with? I would call that hanging out, even if it was 1 on 1.

 

[Frackal]

All I know is I'm fucking sick of paying for dates and haven't even really started doing it yet...men are so fucking pussy-whipped and blind, it's pathetic. And women. ... they have boobsss

 

[Jimsbbc]

Frack-

What are you talking about? Girls at school only want one thing! They don't want to date they just want to *have fun* (fuck like crazed rabbits).