*~*~*~*After 2 weeks of dating, he tells me he loves me*~*~*~*

[jennifer BFL chick]

Sk* and BM----you have different views, and thats cool. Don't try to "prove the other person wrong" because its not going to happen.....

and Big4life--yes, green jello is the thing in Utah for sure, you wouldn't fit in with your red jello, lol

 

[Bikini Mod]

YOU USE YOUR DICTIONARY AND I WILL USE MINE...

Just PUH-LEASE lay off the moral BULLSHIT 'cause people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones. You have the audacity to speak of morals?

This is a SILLY thread about DATING - NOT FUCKING. See, for SOME PEOPLE there is a difference. I am just sorry that you have not come to recognize that.

If you want to read about my views on FUCKING visit the between-the-sheets board...

Save the ho, slut, skank talk for someplace else, because I have yet to read a solitary post by ANY female on this thread that would warrant such strong language.



Jenn, I am not trying to prove ANYONE'S views wrong. I have clearly stated that MY WAY is NOT the only way.

My only arguement is with the bible-thumping hypocrite psychos that think it is perfectly acceptable to start hurling degrading insults at a woman JUST BECAUSE she has an opposing point of view.

You want to date "one girl/guy at a time" GO FOR IT! Your loss.... You will get no judgmental banter from me.

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

Yeah, I see where your coming from BM---but there are lots of guys that call chicks whores/sluts/ or whatever for any reason, and so what if they think that. I know I'm not a whore, so whatever

 

[Bikini Mod]

It isn't that it bothers me PERSONALLY - for cripe's sake - THIS IS THE INTERNET!

BUT - I DO find it offensive to women in general and I just won't tolerate it. I like to crack a joke or flame an asshole as well as the next person BUT I will not take banter that is degrading to women LIGHTLY.

Perhaps I am a bit too "militant" about this, but HEY - works for me!

I especially like to watch them hang themselves with their own stupidity! THAT IS SOME FUNNY SHIT!

 

[big4life]

and Big4life--yes, green jello is the thing in Utah for sure, you wouldn't fit in with your red jello, lol

*Takes my red jello and goes to look for someone else to play with*

 

[Bikini Mod]

I rest my case.

 

[Frackal]

not to be blunt, but if your sick of paying for dates, then don't pay for them......



I don't feel bad if a guy asks me out to dinner and pays----never have---

Now if I asked him out, thats a different story-----

Most the guys I date make mucho money, so I'm not worried about them paying for a little dinner

Nice in theory but it doesnt work out that way.

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

Opposing point of view???? LMAO

NO SHIT!!!!

Everyone has different points of views and that's what an argument is for. By my defenition anyone who would play the opposite sex (play as in date, sex, give head or whatever) is a WHORE. That's my view. You don't have to like it, but it is my view and I JUSTIFIED myself.

A girl just wants to have fun.

Jen, I understand what you are saying about not wanting obligation BUT this is life not a game. You are going on the date to just have fun at the expense of another, that just isn't fair.

Believe me, I have been through a lot in my life ... I even know what it's like to be in love with 2girls at once and know it can be fun to date many people at once or sleep with them at once ... blah blah. Point is, by my defenition it is IMMORAL to be with more than one person because you are being ROMANTICALLY involved with more than one person ... THAT IS RIDDICULOUS!!!

Sounds like someone could use a hug!

 

[Bikini Mod]

All I am saying is, why would you go out on a date if there was zero interest? I would rather hang with friends. At least I am not having to subject myself to scrutiny. If that is what you want to do, then go out and have fun. You don't owe these guys jack shit - I will attest to that. If they know your situation up front and want to go out, they have no right to bitch.

 

[Bikini Mod]

I totally agree with you though...slamming people for no decent reason is quite foolish, but i guess you have to consider the source.

Peace.