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c'mon how could you expect him NOT to fall in love with you!
*~*~*~*After 2 weeks of dating, he tells me he loves me*~*~*~*
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I can't believe some of the garbage i've seen in this thread...first off, dating more than one person is called playing the field, finding out what you like or don't like, go ahead and date one woman, marry her, and divorce her 2 years later cause you really didn't know her at all...pay alimony and child support for god knows how long...real bright 
BM...i don't really know you...but the "man" comment is really offensive, i'm 20 years old and i know i'm an adult, how can you say that a certain age constitutes "manhood"
BM...i don't really know you...but the "man" comment is really offensive, i'm 20 years old and i know i'm an adult, how can you say that a certain age constitutes "manhood"
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doc_pup said:
I am sorry if you've taken offense as it was not intended that way. I know of MANY who were younger and were forced to grow up FAR MORE QUICKLY than many "men" over 10 years your senior.
It is truly sad when a child/adolescent is robbed of that period of time too soon. And yes, it DOES HAPPEN FAR TOO OFTEN.
My comment was directed at THE AVERAGE BOY... You know, the ones who call ANY FEMALE who does not agree with their point of view a slut, skank, ho, etc. while beating their own chest in an attempt to PROVE thier perceived manhood. This is a CLEAR indicator of thier level of maturity. If one does not fall into that category, then they need not take offense. A MAN KNOWS THAT HE DOES NOT HAVE TO PROVE HIMSELF. HE IS A MAN AND HE KNOWS IT.
Why then would I be so vehement in my attempts to express my point of view? It is simple. As I find it INTOLERABLE for ANY BOARD member to use such derogatory terms when directed at ANY FEMALE for ANY REASON. I feel that when I can, it is my responsibility to ensure that this board continues to be an environment where women are NOT degraded.
If anyone is in disagreement with this, then that is fine. Exercise your right to scroll on down or put me on ignore. Hell, shoot George and email! But be warned, while this board ESPECIALLY THIS CHAT FORUM has very lax rules, I will not hesitate to zap ANY POST that I find degrading to women - PERIOD.
I can agree to disagree but be careful of your tone. Remember people, respect is NEVER to be automatically given - IT IS EARNED.
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Obviously you have difficulty understanding English.
Did you not READ the part where I said that if there is NO INTEREST on my part after the first date... THERE IS NO SECOND DATE?!
And I do NOT take offense to the title grandmother as it implies life experience and wisdom. If I can be HALF the woman my Kòpis Mama was then I will have achieved much!
You do NOT have to respect me personally. You do not know me and it matters not to me. HOWEVER, I do expect you to respect the female board members in general. This is a very simple concept.
(Take some time to read the posts on this thread from the male board members who may not be much older than you, heck I believe they are about your age, and see what SELF-RESPECT is all about. They are not necessarily in agreement with my OR Jen's point of view, but I have yet to read a solitary disprespectful WORD from them!.... THESE ARE NOT MEN - THEY ARE GENTLEMEN. A gentleman is NEVER defined by age.
Did you not READ the part where I said that if there is NO INTEREST on my part after the first date... THERE IS NO SECOND DATE?!
And I do NOT take offense to the title grandmother as it implies life experience and wisdom. If I can be HALF the woman my Kòpis Mama was then I will have achieved much!
You do NOT have to respect me personally. You do not know me and it matters not to me. HOWEVER, I do expect you to respect the female board members in general. This is a very simple concept.
(Take some time to read the posts on this thread from the male board members who may not be much older than you, heck I believe they are about your age, and see what SELF-RESPECT is all about. They are not necessarily in agreement with my OR Jen's point of view, but I have yet to read a solitary disprespectful WORD from them!.... THESE ARE NOT MEN - THEY ARE GENTLEMEN. A gentleman is NEVER defined by age.
jennifer said:
Err..........why?
Hasn't it entered your mind he could be telling the truth.
Everybody here seems to have missed this latter point
completely.
I guess since honest men don't abound, women automatically
assume we're all skirt-chasing maniacs.
Would you rather he ignored you completely and treated you
like crap?
This is just completely kaleidoscopic. I swear some of you women are down-right quirky.
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They is stoopid fonz...stoopid.
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sk* said:
Then why is it that you did not answer my question about fornicating, Oh one of morals?
Oh yea, and I REALLY enjoyed your metaphor of the grandmother locked away for all her years, fed underneath the door.... this is VERY relevant as it occurs soooooo frequently.
When you posted this you AGAIN obviously glossed over the part of my post about the difference between a "man" and a "gentleman"....
I really love it when people THINK they are engaging in intelligent debate, yet fail to answer the other person's questions.
I and a FEW OTHERS have CLEARLY quelled every single on of your objections to our way of thinking... falatio or anal not being considered sex, then the notion of having my male and female friends pay when we socialize (as if a male or female friend would be treated any differently by me), then the notion that I would continue to date a man (and expect him to pay for it) when there is ZERO romantic intent on my part....
Your insecurity has been pointed out to you by not only me, but a few others (which you choose to ignore - hhhmmmmm they are guys so I guess you can't just dismiss them by calling them HO) and I am still waiting to hear about your "morals".
Do you or HAVE YOU EVER engage(d) in premarital sex/heavy petting of any kind?
Dude, send up the white flag.... All of the other HE-MAN WOMAN HATERS have pretty muched ran away with their tails between thier legs.
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