*~*~*~*After 2 weeks of dating, he tells me he loves me*~*~*~*

[Bikini Mod]

I don't understand a lot of you people.

What is she doing wrong? It's called dating, that's the process where you find out if someone is "the one".

What's wrong with them paying? I find that whoever asks someone out, generally pays for the date.

As far as guys feeling like they are competing with each other, that says more about their insecurities than it does about Jenn's.

WORD!

I guess you must be a whore too. tee-hee

 

[naturally anabolic]

jen, please get on messenger

 

[jennifer BFL chick]

How old is he?

Are you his first serious "girlfriend"? I know that you think it's just dating, but if he hasn't had experience with dating he could fall very easily.

You're being honest with him so you shouldn't feel bad. Maybe you could ask him to cut back on the gifts and all?

Have fun and live your life. You will know when it's love.

He is actually 2 years younger then me----hes 21. He has dated alot of girls, and has had serious relationships before, so I feel he could actually know what he's talking about which is awesome yet freaky at the same time.....

I love his gifts! he puts so much thought into them, I feel really lucky actually to have someone so thoughtful and sweet

 

[Norman Bates]

Just wondering, who is paying for your "dates" , is he or are you splitting the costs evenly?

 

[fallenangel]

Give him a break he doesn't know you well enough to love you but saying that is the only way he can quantify how strong his feelings are for you if a girl said that to me after too weeks of dating i'd be over the moon but it aint gonna happen as i'm an ugly pig

 

[Swoleyoley]

i dnt blame him

 

[Longhorn85]

.... then once I did sleep with him though HE TOLD ME TO DATE OTHERS

Damn! He didn't even give you a second chance? Everybody has a bad night, come on!

 

[Bikini Mod]

You GOOFY!... NICE EDIT!

 

[john937]

It's about fucking morals, and I have my morals.

1. I would never let a girl pay for a date no matter what.
2. I only date one girl at a time.

MORALS!!!! RESPECT!!!! I am only 19years old and I already have them, you are much older than me (based on your screen name) yet you seem to lack them.

/B]

No disrespect to either of you.
What I see going on between SK and B-Mom is simply the natural difference in the world view of a teenager and a 30 year old.
Teenagers and 20-somethings start out with so many idealistic "rules" and are quick to judge. Everybody would like to see the world in black&white, it would make life so much simpler.
Over time, experience teaches that all those rules aren't so true and don't matter so much, the world so lite grey/dk grey, and you develop different/other rules that you then try out till they no longer work...and so on and so on...
Both of you are at different points in a long process unfolding, and should give each other some slack!
People around here throw the "ho" and "slut" words around way to easily.

 

[Bikini Mod]

John you are correct... what I don't understand is how someone who is so "moral" can have the word "ho" and "slut" roll off of his tongue as if it were "good morning".

The worst I said of someone who had these points of view was that they were insecure - which they OBVIOUSLY ARE.

Odd though, the MEN that had points of view that were similar to mine WERE NOT CALLED WHORE, SLUT OR SKANK. Hmmmmmm

I can agree to disagree. If a man (or boy - sorry, 19 IS A BOY)wants to date only one girl at a time then that is his perogative. I did NOT condemn that. I only said that this was not in alignment with my thinking. This is no way, shape, or form implies that my way is the only way - IT IS NOT.

I have succeeded to blow this young man's arguements about how I am a whore, user, deceitful - WHATEVER out of the water with INTELLIGENT discourse. The only replies that I recieved is how HE is MORAL and I AM A SLUT.

Okay - He ain't insecure AT ALL.

And what does who pays for a date or how many people you date at a time have to do with morals? What are we here?... Holy Rollers? PUH-LEASE!

May I ask if the author who subscribes to this reasoning has EVER engaged in FORNICATION?!