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It's hard notto get carried away ith all the cool cute baby stuff, but remember he'll grow out of it to quick so keep it simple, get him other thing that will complement his nutrition and well being (good car seats, good diapers, wipes, etc, babyfood, those holster/sling things to carry them hands free, etc)

glad..you can have my hands free slings and carriers if you want them..I never used them. They are just taking up space over here. PM me if you want them.
 
It doesn't matter. Even if you didn't live with her you would be paying rent and child support. And when the reationship goes into the shitter, like it soon will. You will be stuck paying back support from teh time the baby was born. Anything you have bought for her or the baby or any money you have given her regardless of reciepts will be a gift. So if the relationship last a couple years then all the sudden she feels like it she can file for child support and now you will be garnished a little extra on top of what the percent you already have to pay. You will owe back support. Some guys I have worked with are still paying back support even though their kids are out of college.

My little brother is in your boat right now. He stays with the mom and the baby but he also pays support. Its only $50-60 per week but it comes out of his check and he won't get screwed later on with any back support nor will his federal tax refund check be taken away to pay back support. Its nothing against the mom but they are not married and its the best legal/financial precaution he can do. He still sees his boy everyday and is a full time father. He buys him clothes and toys as well.

I'm only telling you this for your own good thats all.

Right on the money with this brah. This is exactly what happened to me. GF got prego while we were split, proposed after the birth out of 'obligation', lived with mother and was the only source of income. After a year realized how fucking stupid I was for proposing and ended it. All of that money I spent was simply looked at as a gift and I owed a shit load in back child support. It doesn't matter if you are in school or have other things goin on in your life, they will take your current job and equate what your income would have been on full time hours(regardless if you were even actually working full time or not) and stick you with the bill. And just like that....your credit is fucked and your in debt up to your eyeballs. Child support is not to be looked at lightly, the court system will bend you over and bareback you like a pick3 rnch meatup at cutters.
 
^^ this...my husband got nailed with presumption of paternity, a cpl yrs back child support for a kid hes never met (about 20k) and all medical bills for the kid upto and including the kids birth

because she said so and he was deployed in a no contact zone...was never even served but because he didn't answer the summons (couldnt, wasnt served) he's the daddy..best part is the support order didnt catch up with him until the kid was 4 or 5 and because the kid is over 2..by the states laws...my husband is stuck paying support until the kid is 18 even if a dna test showed he isnt the father. The baby mama has 4 kids with 4 named fathers...we pay just shy of 12k a year ..I can only imagine what she collects in support total for her kids.

we JUST finished paying the arrearage and getting current with the support beginning of last year

not sayin this is your sitch, but the moral of the story is...protect yourself...the courts aren't even remotely logical with this shit
 
^^ this...my husband got nailed with presumption of paternity, a cpl yrs back child support for a kid hes never met (about 20k) and all medical bills for the kid upto and including the kids birth

because she said so and he was deployed in a no contact zone...was never even served but because he didn't answer the summons (couldnt, wasnt served) he's the daddy..best part is the support order didnt catch up with him until the kid was 4 or 5 and because the kid is over 2..by the states laws...my husband is stuck paying support until the kid is 18 even if a dna test showed he isnt the father. The baby mama has 4 kids with 4 named fathers...we pay just shy of 12k a year ..I can only imagine what she collects in support total for her kids.

we JUST finished paying the arrearage and getting current with the support beginning of last year

not sayin this is your sitch, but the moral of the story is...protect yourself...the courts aren't even remotely logical with this shit

this way each guy will have to pay a larger amount. if one guy was the father of two she would only get a small amount for teh 2nd child compared to a solo dad of one. its sickening to say the least.
 
Im def going thru the court. I told her about it and she got mad at first and i said i could give a fuck if she was mad because she is the one who caused it, told her to stfu and drive lol, jk

like i said i will go through the court next week and set it up. Ill pay the diff in cash or I might just help buy clothes/food/diapers

she's gonna be real pissed when she gets her first check and the court takes their fees out of it. my lil bro's first check to his baby momma was for $13. she WTF'd him till she actually looked at the check and seen they too close to $50 for court costs and admin fees.

Just tell her to STFU and take her anger out upon your wiener.
 
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