Something in my gut...

[AFeedz]

I've had that happen to me. get rid of him. obviously he doesn't think the world of you to even want to get other girls attention, even if it is chatting online and not actually meeting.

he should just come out and say he isn't head over heels over you anymore and that he needs other womens attention. but people don't do that cause they want to keep people on the side as backup.

Honestly, some guys aren't meant to get married. Some men are meant to be alone forever hopping from one girl to the next. If you're husband is the type who will internet creep because he needs attention, you should probably just leave him.

Guys who creep on the internet behind their girlfriend/wife's back are pussies. Instead of manning up and telling you there's a problem or saying it's over, he just goes behind your back. Tell your husband that if he's going to be a creep, to at least be a fucking man about it.

It's also selfish. If he needs/wants to talk to other girls he should have had the decency to leave you first. You need to leave him though. If they do it once, they'll do it again. Men don't change, they just lie and say they will.

 

[tha joker]

You can just replace him with someone from EF. That's what my bitch-of-a-wife did.

 

[jaimejame78]

You can just replace him with someone from EF. That's what my bitch-of-a-wife did.

Holy shit! For real?

On a lighter note I will consider your advice.

 

[jaimejame78]

I've had that happen to me. get rid of him. obviously he doesn't think the world of you to even want to get other girls attention, even if it is chatting online and not actually meeting.

he should just come out and say he isn't head over heels over you anymore and that he needs other womens attention. but people don't do that cause they want to keep people on the side as backup.

This I agree with. This is what I think has happened.

 

[tha joker]

Holy shit! For real?

On a lighter note I will consider your advice.

ok. i'm available,btw.

 

[PICK3]

In before Plunkey's "Something in my butt..." thread

 

[ricco561]

Honestly, some guys aren't meant to get married. Some men are meant to be alone forever hopping from one girl to the next. If you're husband is the type who will internet creep because he needs attention, you should probably just leave him.

Guys who creep on the internet behind their girlfriend/wife's back are pussies. Instead of manning up and telling you there's a problem or saying it's over, he just goes behind your back. Tell your husband that if he's going to be a creep, to at least be a fucking man about it.

It's also selfish. If he needs/wants to talk to other girls he should have had the decency to leave you first. You need to leave him though. If they do it once, they'll do it again. Men don't change, they just lie and say they will.

Pretty cynical for someone so young.
Come sit on my knee and tell me all about it.

 

[twenty47]

i havent seen your pics but if u arent fat u got a cute face. cheat on him with me to make it even..

 

[nimbus]

whoever makes more $$ is allowed to cheat

 

[trex74]

Never had that little voice before but I am having a strong feeling that he recently has/wants/or will. This feeling will not go away. He has recently shown his true colors with internet creeping and trying to set up to meet other women for coffee and/or lunch. He says that he would have never gone through with it and just "got carried away". I still don't know how to take all of it but reading some of the e-mails and texts he sent these other women he is a good liar and put a lot of effort into it. This has led my to question everything now.

Tell me ladies what is a girl to do???

I guess that all depends on whether you still love him enough to try to repair your marriage.
Something is broken here it seems.
I'd just lay it all on the line and say "Don't BS me, what is going on-do you want out"?
But on the other hand if you prefer to wait and see if more "slimy" things will happen, that's up to you and how much of that you are willing to put up with.
IMO a person who cheats is emotionally immature and can't see past their own gimmegimmes.