stop working your damn traps, you look like you have no neck.. hahahahaaa..
seriously, if you stop training them (i don't think you can) it would change the symmetry of your upper body and make your shoulders look wider but genetics are a bitch.. I have very thick traps and the only way to get rid of that look is to stop training them directly..
and yes, this pic makes you look gay.. and yes you look great, you could always dance for the rent money..