Am I the only one here that suffers from stress/anxiety/depression?

[nangiggles]

Yeah you do.


You don't want to admit it, and that's cool, but it's true. That's what took you so long to leave your husband and even then you didn't until you had someone lined up already.


You're wasting your time anyways. This guy is clearly not into you and you know it (based off your own posts). He's not even divorced yet, already ignoring you, still active on Tinder, he has a toddler when you don't even really seem to like kids and have expressed openly zero interest in ever having them. It's hard enough to raise someone else's kids, I can't even imagine attempting it when you yourself don't have your own.


I could be wrong, but I'm not.

I was single for several months before I met him. I like kids, I work with them. I've been out with him and his daughter.

He has mediation next month, he's not divorced due to custody issues.

Tinder thing I have no answer for, we never talked about being exclusive I keep obsessing about everything yet making excuses for it at the same time.

Other than the last 2 weeks we were great. Making plans to go to CA in October, talking about Christmas, etc. No fucking clue what's up. Hoping it's just been an odd week. It was a really bad week with visitation for him

 

[digimon7068]

it's that fat stack of hundreds that you wrap around your pp to make it look bigger...

 

[miplank]

link?

sorry bro i'm fresh out

 

[cindylou]

Have you read the book Dating the Divorced Man its for men divorcing too

 

[miplank]

I was single for several months before I met him. I like kids, I work with them. I've been out with him and his daughter.

He has mediation next month, he's not divorced due to custody issues.

Tinder thing I have no answer for, we never talked about being exclusive I keep obsessing about everything yet making excuses for it at the same time.

Other than the last 2 weeks we were great. Making plans to go to CA in October, talking about Christmas, etc. No fucking clue what's up. Hoping it's just been an odd week. It was a really bad week with visitation for him

yeah, whatever. There was a guy before you left your husband and right after.


Either way, you went from one banana to the next.

 

[miplank]

You have no business being around that kid yet either.



Just sayin'

 

[miplank]

Guy kinda sounds like a loser

 

[cindylou]

its been six months our kids met us at month 6

 

[nangiggles]

You have no business being around that kid yet either.



Just sayin'

I've actually helped him increase his visitation with his daughter. Also she is very young, doesn't even talk. I'd never allow significant bonding with an older child.

 

[miplank]

umm..no.


I don't care how long it's been. She doesn't even know if they're fucking exclusive.


Kid shouldn't be anywhere in the picture at this point.



I could be wrong, but I'm not.