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Although I pride myself in being passive aggressive I must honestly admit this post had absolutely nothing to do with you, I actually posted it because someone messaged me saying abuse is real,so I wanted to come back and state that I didnt mean tominimize the effects of abuse in a relationship and that regardless of the cause of the abuse it's still wrong, however people (and I dont mean you or anyone specific) love walking around labeling people around them to feel better, for example my husband usually scolds me and gets mad,however he gets mad over shit that LITERALLY is my fault, it's my turn to do the dishes and I let them just pile, or it's my turn to pressure wwash the deck and I procrastinate it, or he says I'll do this thing and you do that and he'll do his and I wont do mine, so from my point of view I can say he's an asshole who is always mad and constantly scolds me, and id I try really hard I can probably fit him in a personality disorder over this, however in reality my lazy procrastination gets me in that position, truth is subjective to your own thoughts and experience, we will always feel better labeling and putting the blame on others....
As I said Im not trying to minimize the experience of others, but people have to be careful, it's not just a matter of reading criteria and thinking (from their point of view) that someone else fits it... it's not that simple... maybe we even want them to fit the description so we can find an explanation/excuse for behaviors in others we dont like/accept
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heh
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"Education is the ability to listen to almost anything without losing your temper."
Robert Frost
Robert Frost
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Serena gave up her interior stylist job in London to base herself close to her husband in Kent.
"I didn't mean to become an Aspinall breeder" "Then again", she says "there can't be too many places in the world where at two in the morning you can breast-feed to the sound of howler monkeys and lion roars"
"I didn't mean to become an Aspinall breeder" "Then again", she says "there can't be too many places in the world where at two in the morning you can breast-feed to the sound of howler monkeys and lion roars"
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http://www.environmenttimes.co.uk/news_detail.aspx?news_id=703
"Females first breed at around 10 years old with males ready to breed at 15."
that's interesting
"Females first breed at around 10 years old with males ready to breed at 15."
that's interesting
blueta2
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that is entirely possible under normal circumstances. And you're right, the label doesn't matter, but as humans, we have to give everything a label. It's what works! If we didn't then therapists would be out of business.
