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[*ebony*]

sorry for new thread i was gonna put it this in my gay sex thread but i guess sex is just sex in the end.

please be serious guys, im kinda troubled facing a dilemma.

This guy who had previously expressed interest in me, just came out of the blue confessed that he had sex with other men on a few occasions. I was a bit shocked but kept my cool and i asked him about it and he told me. to spare you the details he said his reasoning was just the fantasy that aroused him. an experiment. he still says he's is straight and only desires a relationship with a woman. Im not sure if this is common or not, and men just never admit it. Im still somewhat shocked and disoriented because ive never had a conversation like that with a man.

im almost afriad he'll find this thread and know who i am. I don't think he ever admits something like that and not sure why he did, and i cant help but think differently about him now.

 

[*ebony*]

I don't even know if im asking a question, making a statement or asking for verification or reassurance.lol

 

[JAKE-PATRIOTS]

So You turned a straight man gay?

 

[smurf2]

steer clear of that kind of relationsip IMO. sounds like he doesnt really know what he wants, despite what he says.

 

[PICK3]

doesn't count if:

- he was in teh fog
- drunk
- in prison

 

[AFeedz]

steer clear of that kind of relationsip IMO. sounds like he doesnt really know what he wants, despite what he says.

This.

 

[-SD-]

Dump him and move on. If he cant commit to his own sexuality he cant commit to any one person imo. If anything it certainly shows a lack of maturity, or a good possibility of going completely gay at some point.

Oh, and hes cheating on you.

 

[PICK3]

Urban Dictionary: DOWN LOW

 

[EarthRider]

I have never one time in my life had a fantasy of being gay. I would say this guy is bi, and will continue to play with the same team.

 

[cuthroat]

steer clear of that kind of relationsip IMO. sounds like he doesnt really know what he wants, despite what he says.

This...to me it sounds like this guy is probably a Homosexual that is having trouble coming out of the closet due to societal norm's and/or a strong man/women relationship in his life that he would like to emulate. All in all straight dudes do not fantasize about having sex with another dude...in any way...period.

Sorry girl but you can do better, try and bury this big of an issue under the rug now and it is sure to come back and bite you.

Keep us posted - I am sure this is difficult for you.