Do I Have A Right To Be Pissed?

[captainahole]

I would have kept the dogs and got rid of the kids.

 

[chris302001]

at least glad takes care of his own, and dont turn his back on resonsability

lol for better or worse, right?

 

[Captain FT]

we all get the point on that, 100%

but if i told a girl i worked with to suck my dick and that i strongly wanted this to happen and would feel disrespected if it didnt, shed be like "wtf u crazy"

sort of like your family is like "wtf u crazy" about this situation.

youre over reacting basically

I like you bro but I completely disagree with your analogy. I know what you are trying to say, but it doesn't work here or at least that's my opinion. I know the in-laws think they were doing the right thing but they weren't and just wish they would have respected my opinion and not got the dogs.

 

[ceo]

they felt like they were doing the best thing for the situation and clearly saw you were being a selfish fucking crybaby who didn't give a shit about giving up on previous responsibilities. They were right, you were wrong. Start being a man while you still can. Ask your wife to let you see your testicles again. That will help. Fuckin dog hater.

 

[bigpokey]

dog hater!

 

[mrplunkey]

If you strongly voice your opinion on something to people you care about and they do the opposite, are you saying you wouldn't feel disrespected?

Once we made the decision to give up the dogs, I really didn't want to see them back once they were picked up. I envisioned them at a house with a family and a nice back yard to runaround in. Not going from our townhouse with no back yard to a condo down the street with no back yard.

At this point I don't give a shit about the dogs, it's more about how they didn't give a shit about how I feel about the situation. If the roles were reversed and someone said they really didn't want me doing something I would have respected their wishes and not done it.

You have to be careful in situations where you feel disrespected. Sometimes it's a legitimate complaint and sometimes it's simply your ego getting bruised.

Ask yourself: Would they be going to a decent home? Do your in-laws have a mild (even very mild) attachment to the dogs anyway?

Be careful in situations where all you are doing is protecting your ego. That can get away from you in a hurry. Pride is expensive stuff.

 

[Captain FT]

they felt like they were doing the best thing for the situation and clearly saw you were being a selfish fucking crybaby who didn't give a shit about giving up on previous responsibilities. They were right, you were wrong. Start being a man while you still can. Ask your wife to let you see your testicles again. That will help. Fuckin dog hater.

Wtf, did my wife post her earlier saying she'd blow everyone that sided with her?

 

[calveless wonder]

I don't know. If it were me, and I had to give up my dogs, I'd at least want them with a family member/someone I know so I could see them and also know they're in good hands.

What was your relationship like with the in-laws before this? Do you have a bad relationship?

Agreed

And don't be selfish Cap. What would have been best for the dogs? That is the REAL question.

I let my ex keep our dog because I couldn't take care of him working 13 hours a day at the time. It broke my heart but it was best for him

 

[Captain FT]

You have to be careful in situations where you feel disrespected. Sometimes it's a legitimate complaint and sometimes it's simply your ego getting bruised.

Ask yourself: Would they be going to a decent home? Do your in-laws have a mild (even very mild) attachment to the dogs anyway?

Be careful in situations where all you are doing is protecting your ego. That can get away from you in a hurry. Pride is expensive stuff.

I appreciate your comments bro. I feel disrespected and in turn am protecting my ego. It's hard to get over I guess.

 

[Smurfy]

I appreciate your comments bro. I feel disrespected and in turn am protecting my ego. It's hard to get over I guess.

yep. but, its said and done and nothing you can do now. No need to sit around pissed about it. Time to move on.


Also, did you ever post pics of the new baby? I'd like to see the lil munchkin.