Stuck in my Head...can't get hard

[capostatus]

Ever since I dumped my gf i'm having trouble getting hard with other girls. I have no problem getting hard and boning my gf, or jerking off, etc. But idk what it is. Maybe cuz i'm not used to beign with a diff girl for the past year.

what the fuck should i do? dont reccomend any pills or anything. it's not a physical problem. i know its just in my head...

 

[captainahole]

Maybe your into guys now?

 

[DJ_UFO]

yeah is psychological. Give yourself time to distract and totally forget the previous girl. Don't satisfy completely with your hand or you'll get used to it.

 

[canadianhitman]

It's nerves. Try to have a few (and I mean a FEW) drinks to relax you the next time. If that doesn't work, then you have no choice but to throw some cialis into the mix until you are comfortable enough to go in clean and sober.

 

[captainahole]

Just kidding about the last post. Their different and you were comfortable, It'll change.

 

[goin on 4T]

take a viagra, call an escort 2 come over in 3 hours, start drinking by the time they get there you will be fine, you can thank me the next morning.

 

[kx250rider]

Rule #1 in diagnosing that problem: If it gets hard at all (at least in the morning), it's psychological/nerves. That doesn't make it any less of a problem for any man though. Speaking from more experience than I'd ever want to have, btw. The quick fix is to go with the "confidence pill" (Cialis is what I like best), and you're good to go. All due respect to Canadianhitman and others who mentioned a few drinks, I don't think that's a good idea, at least in my experience. Alcohol makes wood-loss worse for me. The real fix, of course, is to find out what's interfering, and work on it.

Charles

 

[nangiggles]

if you dumped her i dont see why it should matter, did she cheat on you or do something that undermined ur confidence?

 

[thelion2005]

I have been through this. I was so into one woman, I was a noddle with others when we broke up.
So, I found rebound girl, someone I could tell this problem to. Told her and within three sessions
all was well, if not better. She took it as a challenge.

I also had to relax, forget about performing, and simply enjoy the new person. Each woman has some sexy feature a man can get lost in.

Viagra works, but I was afraid to be dependant on it when I knew it was mental.

The woman in the pic below was not rebound girl. She put them all on erase/delete. A really sexy woman could cure your mental problem too.

 

[capostatus]

if you dumped her i dont see why it should matter, did she cheat on you or do something that undermined ur confidence?

Nope I ended things with her and we're still on good terms.

It's so annoying though. I hung out with this ex-fling of mine (who i've fucked countless times - amazing sex) like three or four times and couldn't get hard.

Then literally the day after I would go and fuck the shit out of my ex-girlfriend two or three times.

It makes no sense. I just want to punch the shit out of something. I think it may be because I was so close with my g/f and i know she'd never judge me, but even still im not insecure or worrying about a new girl judging me. But it might be that comfort of that guaranteed fuck that I don't have anymore. I need to step out of my comfort zone, but everytime I do, it ends up with me staying semi-hard