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Your s/o is a cheater....

chances are if she cheated on you once, she'll cheat on you again.
betrayal, lack of honesty, risking your health, making you look bad to anyone who finds it out, etc.

you decide.
 
WELL it is not that simple, people cheat for different reasons, But i do believe if there is a problem in your relationship, people should talk about it, than rather resulting to cheating or seeking comfort else where,

That saying once a cheater always a cheater is a pile of bullshit, I know soo many who have cheated on their partners, been dumped and learned from their mistakes and vow never do that again to themselves or the people they love

YOUR PAST IS NOT YOUR POTENTIAL - REMEMBER THAT PEOPLE - AND EVERYONE MAKES MISTAKES, BUT YOUR MISTAKE - Does NOT defined who you are, what the defined's you is how high you rise after falling
 
djufo said:
one last dirty sanchez, then pack it up.
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lmao!





depends on the situation. are you married? if yes i think you should TRY and work on your problems. not married? see djufo's answer
 
Married once--pack that shit......................bitches!


RADAR
 
pack it up, but only after you find away to get some quality revenge or at least embarrass them in front of a large group of people (i.e. have sex with their sister and video tape it)
 
im not gonna be anyone scond choice when i can be soneones firs.t. and i don't do left overs.. so NO
 
Nope and I wouldn't be able to handle that. I don't think I could be mentally or emotionally healthy if I always had to wonder what my SO was up to.
 
GoldenDelicious said:
too proud for that. id pack my stuff and be gone. they might still love you...but not enough
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But i bet if it was the other way round, you would want her to consider and take you back :rolleyes:
 
I'd do the airplane steward bu-bye, bu-bye now....
 
Raina said:
Nope and I wouldn't be able to handle that. I don't think I could be mentally or emotionally healthy if I always had to wonder what my SO was up to.
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Yes, a sound response indeed, however I am not sure if in practice that could be implemented easily, painlessly and unregretably...
 
djufo said:
one last dirty sanchez, then pack it up.
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Not even. Don't give her the satisfaction of you fucking her. Just leave and move on, let her reap what she has sown.

I'm a pretty flexible guy when it comes to relationships, but cheating is the one thing I do not condone on any level. Do that and I'm history, period. Anything else can be talked through and resolved, but once that kind of trust is broken it's over.
 
jstmitebe said:
do you stay with them or do you tell them to pack your shit!!
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i had to pack my shit and get out...when i found out, i lost my mind....never so heartbroken in my life....i never looked at her the same-to this day...tragic.
 
Meantime1 said:
But i bet if it was the other way round, you would want her to consider and take you back :rolleyes:
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no, not really. once you hurt someone that much, the magic that you try to keep alive with your partner for the next half century withers. of course it would depend on the situation ie old girlfriend of many years comes back that i have feelings for, while the new relationship is still in its formative stages, and im torn - in that case, it would depend on how much potential the new relationship has and exactly why i got back with the ex...but for the most part, cheating rocks a relationships foundations too deep to be glossed over. if its a straight out affair from a S.O of many years, well then the cheating party is just not trustworthy...but if you cheat, theres a 90% chance the damage is irreperable, end of story.
 
GoldenDelicious said:
no, not really. once you hurt someone that much, the magic that you try to keep alive with your partner for the next half century withers. of course it would depend on the situation ie old girlfriend of many years comes back that i have feelings for, while the new relationship is still in its formative stages, and im torn - in that case, it would depend on how much potential the new relationship has and exactly why i got back with the ex...but for the most part, cheating rocks a relationships foundations too deep to be glossed over. if its a straight out affair from a S.O of many years, well then the cheating party is just not trustworthy...but if you cheat, theres a 90% chance the damage is irreperable, end of story.
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I read your post and i understand it
WELL it is not that simple, people cheat for different reasons, But i do believe if there is a problem in your relationship, people should talk about it, than rather resulting to cheating or seeking comfort else where,

That saying once a cheater always a cheater is a pile of bullshit, I know soo many who have cheated on their partners, been dumped and learned from their mistakes and vow never do that again to themselves or the people they love

YOUR PAST IS NOT YOUR POTENTIAL - REMEMBER THAT PEOPLE - AND EVERYONE MAKES MISTAKES, BUT YOUR MISTAKE - Does NOT defined who you are, what the defined's you is how high you rise after falling
 
Meantime1 said:
WELL it is not that simple, people cheat for different reasons
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That's a load of shit. It all boils down to the same reason—they're a selfish piece of shit who didn't care about the other person.
 
Meantime1 said:
I read your post and i understand it
WELL it is not that simple, people cheat for different reasons, But i do believe if there is a problem in your relationship, people should talk about it, than rather resulting to cheating or seeking comfort else where,

That saying once a cheater always a cheater is a pile of bullshit, I know soo many who have cheated on their partners, been dumped and learned from their mistakes and vow never do that again to themselves or the people they love

YOUR PAST IS NOT YOUR POTENTIAL - REMEMBER THAT PEOPLE - AND EVERYONE MAKES MISTAKES, BUT YOUR MISTAKE - Does NOT defined who you are, what the defined's you is how high you rise after falling
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You keep saying that, but the reality is that many people, when the relationship gets hard or turns unhappy, look for comfort elsewhere rather than deal with the problem as a couple. For many people cheating is the easier route to feeling better, and in today's instant gratification society it happens alot. Hence the high rate of divorce: people would rather leave and move on than stay and work on the relationship, because moving on seems easier. Of course, avoiding the problem is no real solution in the long run; you learn nothing.

People who cheat once tend to always cheat when faced with relationship difficulties simply because they don't know how to deal with real problems in a relationship. The saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" does have a ring of truth to it, like it or not.
 
From Zero said:
That's a load of shit. It all boils down to the same reason—they're a selfish piece of shit who didn't care about the other person.[/QUOTE


Interesting Zero
OUT of my sentenses you single out that line, did u read what i wrote after it, well LET ME HELP YOU OUT

WELL it is not that simple, people cheat for different reasons, But i do believe if there is a problem in your relationship, people should talk about it, than rather resulting to cheating or seeking comfort else where,
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Also, should this SO still be kept for whatever reasons, I suspect that the dynamics and the nature of the relationship would have a different face - may be you'll see your SO as more of a sex object as supposed to a love object.

I do know a few individuals who fit this situation.
 
Forge said:
You keep saying that, but the reality is that many people, when the relationship gets hard or turns unhappy, look for comfort elsewhere rather than deal with the problem as a couple. For many people cheating is the easier route to feeling better, and in today's instant gratification society it happens alot. Hence the high rate of divorce: people would rather leave and move on than stay and work on the relationship, because moving on seems easier. Of course, avoiding the problem is no real solution in the long run; you learn nothing.

People who cheat once tend to always cheat when faced with relationship difficulties simply because they don't know how to deal with real problems in a relationship. The saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" does have a ring of truth to it, like it or not.
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I have to agree with this statement....

My exhusband cheated on me for months with a coworker....... said our probs were my fault & insisted on counseling -- cheating all the while!! We separated, then divorced & he ended up marrying her.......

The only thing I wish is that since she was seen over my house repeatedly by neighbors, etc I wish someone had told me!! :mad:
 
Forge said:
You keep saying that, but the reality is that many people, when the relationship gets hard or turns unhappy, look for comfort elsewhere rather than deal with the problem as a couple. For many people cheating is the easier route to feeling better, and in today's instant gratification society it happens alot. Hence the high rate of divorce: people would rather leave and move on than stay and work on the relationship, because moving on seems easier. Of course, avoiding the problem is no real solution in the long run; you learn nothing.

People who cheat once tend to always cheat when faced with relationship difficulties simply because they don't know how to deal with real problems in a relationship. The saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" does have a ring of truth to it, like it or not.
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YOU GIVE A VERY VERY VALID POINT and this is a very good DEBATE and i understand where u are coming from, in todays society is is SOOOOOO much easier to walk away, than stay and make it work, walking away for me only show's your character and tells me that they dont have the emotional maturity to make a relationship walk, MY EX WALKED AWAY when things got rough and funny, 5 relationships later , his still walking away.

Now as for cheating, lets face it we are all humans and some, NOT ALL but some make mistakes, BUT i DONT believe just because u cheat once u will do it again, My 1st ever BF, cheated on his 1st ever bf, and got dumpped, when he got together with me he made a vow, NEVER do that to himself again and the person he loved and GUESS WHAT NOT once did he brake that vow,

WE as a society are very quick to conderm people, JUST REMEMBER YOUR PAST is NOT your Potential, Just because someone is a fuckup DOES NOT MEAN they will be a FUCKUP for the rest of their lifes, SOMETIMES SOME PEOPLE need to cross that grass just to see if it is greener on the other side, and many NOT ALL, but MANY learn from their mistakes

That saying once a cheater always a cheater is a pile of bullshit,
 
It depends;
If it was that she met a guy and they chatted and hooked up then hell no.
But if she went out and got too drunk and cheated then we should try and work it out.
 
Wow.. I'm surprised at those willing to "work it out".

Complete & total deal-breaker to me. Whatever the reason.
 
Forge said:
You keep saying that, but the reality is that many people, when the relationship gets hard or turns unhappy, look for comfort elsewhere rather than deal with the problem as a couple. For many people cheating is the easier route to feeling better, and in today's instant gratification society it happens alot. Hence the high rate of divorce: people would rather leave and move on than stay and work on the relationship, because moving on seems easier. Of course, avoiding the problem is no real solution in the long run; you learn nothing.

People who cheat once tend to always cheat when faced with relationship difficulties simply because they don't know how to deal with real problems in a relationship. The saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" does have a ring of truth to it, like it or not.
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Whilst I see the validity of this statement from a sociological perspective and credit it as such an insightful way of looking at it (hence deserves a K) , on a personal level I'm not too sure about this part though:

"...moving on seems easier".

If moving on is that simple then you should question whether the love in the first place b/w the individual and his/her SO was truly that significant or not.

As far as I've discovered and read, most "move ons" appears to be highly contradictory.
 
I would have to say leave having been cheated on and having done it myself. It damages the relationship and it takes so much to regain the trust of your wife/husband/gf/bf that most do not have the strength. The pain and anguish that it causes has been likened to what someone feels when they have been raped.

So, if you can work it out and move forward great, if you cannot, move on.
 
Growth&Courage said:
Whilst I see the validity of this statement from a sociological perspective and credit it as such an insightful way of looking at it (hence deserves a K) , on a personal level I'm not too sure about this part though:

"...moving on seems easier".

If moving on is that simple then you should question whether the love in the first place b/w the individual and his/her SO was truly that significant or not.

As far as I've discovered and read, most "move ons" appears to be highly contradictory.
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Yes, unquestionably. If someone is that unwilling to work things out and cheats instead then they were never very serious in the first place, or they lost interest over time (more common I think). The thing is that most people lose interest due to the problems in the relationship, and if they would only work those problems out then the reasons they fell in love in the first place would come back stronger than ever. This is why most married couples who seperate but come back together after working through it are much happier after the whole ordeal, they form a stronger bond than before.

Note that the whole "...moving on seems easier" sentiment is not how I feel; I believe that a couple should face hardships together and talk things out, but I've seen it time and time again and it seems to be more the norm today than the exception.
 
Seashell said:
Wow.. I'm surprised at those willing to "work it out".

Complete & total deal-breaker to me. Whatever the reason.
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The people willing to work it out = Insecure. Can't handle being alone.

I am Doctor Motherfucking Phil up in this thread.
 
Meantime1 said:
I read your post and i understand it
WELL it is not that simple, people cheat for different reasons, But i do believe if there is a problem in your relationship, people should talk about it, than rather resulting to cheating or seeking comfort else where,

That saying once a cheater always a cheater is a pile of bullshit, I know soo many who have cheated on their partners, been dumped and learned from their mistakes and vow never do that again to themselves or the people they love

YOUR PAST IS NOT YOUR POTENTIAL - REMEMBER THAT PEOPLE - AND EVERYONE MAKES MISTAKES, BUT YOUR MISTAKE - Does NOT defined who you are, what the defined's you is how high you rise after falling
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your past is still a part of who you are and who you will always be, my man. don't kid yourself. while it's true that some people make mistakes and that some cheaters may cheat once and never again, you would be fool to ignore what that person has done in the past and dismiss it as another life.
 
chesty said:
... most do not have the strength...
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I hear people say this fairly often and I always find that a strange comment because to me, it's not strength when you let someone cheat on you and stay with them.. that's weakness.

Strength to me, is cutting all ties and walking away from that person you are completely in love with, because they clearly don't love you and you deserve better.
 
KillahBee said:
your past is still a part of who you are and who you will always be, my man. don't kid yourself. while it's true that some people make mistakes and that some cheaters may cheat once and never again, you would be fool to ignore what that person has done in the past and dismiss it as another life.
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cheating, lets face it we are all humans and some, NOT ALL but some make mistakes, BUT i DONT believe just because u cheat once u will do it again, My 1st ever BF, cheated on his 1st ever bf, and got dumpped, when he got together with me he made a vow, NEVER do that to himself again and the person he loved and GUESS WHAT NOT once did he brake that vow,

WE as a society are very quick to conderm people, JUST REMEMBER YOUR PAST is NOT your Potential, Just because someone is a fuckup DOES NOT MEAN they will be a FUCKUP for the rest of their lifes, SOMETIMES SOME PEOPLE need to cross that grass just to see if it is greener on the other side, and many NOT ALL, but MANY learn from their mistakes

That saying once a cheater always a cheater is a pile of bullshit,
 
I've taken back a cheating GF of 2 years, only to get screwed over again on down the road.

Lesson learned.... Once they cheat they are history.
 
I'm always straight up in telling women that i'm not interented in being in a monogomous relationship, & that they should see other people. Funny thing is, a lot of the time they go out of their way to let me know they aren't seeing other people. figure that!

If I was 1 on 1 w/ someone I would not give a 2nd chance & I wouldn't expect her to give me one.
 
jstmitebe said:
do you stay with them or do you tell them to pack your shit!!
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Why is she packing my shit if she cheated

My ex was like that

She would never let me throw away empty boxes. Just stacked them up in our garage. I was like wtf does she plan on doing with all those boxes?

Then when we broke up I found out
It was to pack all my stuff in to take with her:(
 
This may sound shallow, but human beings, and basically all of nature, are not meant to be in monogamous relationships; at least biologically. This is what makes relationships such a challenge.

It's difficult, but I would break up with a girl before I felt like cheating on her. A lot of people throw the word cheating around loosely, but I wouldn't want to be cheated on in any way, especially if it was being hidden from me. I'd never want to be hurt like that, so I consider any girl I think is relationship potential as my only for as long as it lasts.
 
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