Your bestfriends Gf tells you shes thinking about dating others, what to do?

[velvett]

Wait till he comes back, sit them both down to a meal in a public place. Eat, chit chat and calmly tell them both what you think and feel and what they have said to you - cheating, ring, etc.

Dump it back into their lap to think about and let them make their own decisions.

Oh and leave after you've told them, so make sure to take your own wheels.



Note: I know this sounds to be a bit uncaring but people LIKE to make their own mistakes and as much as we look back upon our own mistakes wishing someone would have stopped us; we would have make the mistake sooner or later anyway.

 

[Fonz]

I think she's trying to manipulate you.

Scenario: You don't tell your friend, something bad
happens, she dumps him.
She tells him she told you, so she's off the hook.

What happens: Your friend gets mad at you.

Not good Tx.

This situation(as Velvett said) is essentially a two-person
problem.
There is no need to add a third cog to the wheel.

And Velvett DZZAMMMNNN!!! you got a devious mind....LOL

I say, tell your friend then LEAVE
TOWN for a while.

To be brutally honest, he's your friend, SHE is NOT.

Godspeed











.

 

[Jimsbbc]

Personally,

I think what Velvett said would be a disaster. They would both be looking at you like you were the devil. I would just tell your bro what's up asap and let him take the appropriate action. He is the one who needs to sit down and talk with her, after all, it is their relationship.

 

[TheSalami]

dont do the stupid ass restaurant thing. just tell your friend next time you see him. no need to put your friend in that stupid position in the restaurant.

 

[Jimsbbc]

LMAO at Winny Fan

 

[velvett]

Look - if your friend can't tell you're being fucked over THAT's his problem. If your best buds girl tells you THAT she wants to cheat on YOUR friend - she's a bitch.

Let them make their own damn mistakes because they will resent you for telling them and they will resent you for not telling you.






And yes, I can be hella devious.

That folks is why I am the hit man at work.

 

[satanic]

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[TxCollegeguy]

Well they both live up in Ft Worth

so being around either of them isn't a problem....The girl said she was thinking about seeing other guys. I think I was able to talk some sense into her. I was supposed to go up and see them before the end of the month but I'm going to talk to my boy and see whats going on before I make any more plans. I'm going to tell him that his gf thinks he's been cheating and has considered breaking up with him cause she doesn't feel she knows the whole truth...More importantly I'm going to tell him to play things straight with her, cause I know they care about each other it's just that the lines of communication have some how been messed up......

 

[TheSalami]

velvett isnt being devious she is just playing for team vagina. there is no point in doing anything to screw over your friend. he hasnt done anything wrong and even if he did something wrong who gives a shit. he is your friend and you tell him.

 

[liftsiron]

Tell your friend that his girlfriend wants to become a slut, then take him out for a few beers and encourege him to get laid.