Your bestfriends Gf tells you shes thinking about dating others, what to do?

[Laserdude]

You better tell your buddy, before he spends money on a ring. Then ask the bitch out and get some. That way you will prove she was not right for your buddy.

Now go ahead and nail the bitch.

 

[Sassy69]

Tell the girl that if she has doubts about the boyfriend, she should be addressing it to the boyfriend and not confiding in you about cheating on him. Instead tell her that if she doesn't get her shit together and address her issues with the boyfriend then you have no choice but to tell the boyfriend yourself. Its no fair that she put you in that situation and she is just demonstrating that she doesn't have the balls to deal with the problem headon-- especially if their trust is in question. They have no business getting other people involved until they get their own shit dealt w/.

Just my opinion. Put the responsibility back on her, but since she involved you and you are not the sort of person to shit on your friend, put a "time limit" on it or something so that she is forced to address the issue, with the warning that if she doesn't , you have an obligation to at least let your friend be aware of this shit.

Why does it become so easy to shit on the people you are supposed to trust the most??? Like more screwing around makes the situation better???

 

[TheSalami]

do not listen to advice from chicks like sassy or velvett. dont bother with the slut. she isnt your friend. just tell your friend and he will deal with it as he wants. dont even hint to her that you may talk with your friend about it.

 

[velvett]

velvett isnt being devious she is just playing for team vagina

Actually, I am, from what was said by TX, on the side of the guy. You'd be surprised but I don't care for most women - especially the lazy money grubbing overly-dependent on man beast type.

If a girl involves the best bud on the guy she's with she playing games. If they break up she will help tarnish the friendship between the guys as well as help weaken her relationship with her boyfriend.

I would just tell my guy friend to serious think about their relationship before giving a ring. And if he is cheating on her and getting her a ring he is a bigger asshole than she is for telling her beau's bud that she's thinking of evening the score.




On a personal note - I tell people the straight up facts - male or female, friend or foe I'm consistent that way and while it may shows me in a negative or abrasive light I chose it so I deal with it. But frankly I'm too tired of the games and bullshit between people so I figure lay it on the line and see who sticks around.

 

[velvett]

Personally,

I think what Velvett said would be a disaster. They would both be looking at you like you were the devil. I would just tell your bro what's up asap and let him take the appropriate action. He is the one who needs to sit down and talk with her, after all, it is their relationship.

GOOD! They deserve it for dragging a third party into their poor communication and cheating libidos. They do that on purpose so they have a third party to blame their bad relationship on.

 

[big4life]

GOOD! They deserve it for dragging a third party into their poor communication and cheating libidos. They do that on purpose so they have a third party to blame their bad relationship on.

Well said.

Third parties are usually drug into this crap because the two primary parties are either too insecure or immature to deal with their own issues.
Usually it is the friend who gets hurt by both of them.

 

[BigJay81]

Put that bitch on the street!!!!

 

[gymnpoppa]

Pimp slap that ho!


Obvious proof that you can take em out of the ghetto, but you can't take the ghetto/ebonics out of em!

 

[Natymike]

that is the dumbest thing i have ever heard. the guy is going to freak out. they should do it behind closed doors so that when he hits her there are no witnesses.

LMAO

 

[TheSalami]

GOOD! They deserve it for dragging a third party into their poor communication and cheating libidos. They do that on purpose so they have a third party to blame their bad relationship on.

the guy doesnt deserve it the bitch does. the guy didnt cause a third party to get involved. no point in putting him in a sudden confrontation unprepared. you should let the guy know by himself and let him prepare what he is going to do. velvett may not be playing 100% for the vagina but she is still screwing the guy over for no reason just because she still leans towards team vagina.