You guys have been great

[just...v]

Common sense, morals, sanity

I said WHO not WHAT.

 

[jnevin]

these elationships are fuggin...no joke. How I could even deveop feelings for someone with words on a screen and the sound of a voice does not make sense considering I'm not pathetic and I can get a real date with a real person in real life...and it still seems that these would tend to get more intense than a real relationship and almost move more quickly than a RL one would....and end just like that..over.

I'll never love that way again...terrifying.

Cindy I think you need to know that you didn't "love". You're going through what's possibly the most traumatic time of your life. When the ex and I split (after 12 years together) I was a mess. I didn't know up from down, we had our baby that she was threatening to take away, she was banging some pill head douchebag, my dog just died, and my industry was in shambles. I shut myself down completely and didn't talk to wimmons. If I didn't do that, I guarantee I'd have found someone that was as codependent as I'd have been, fallen in "love" and then had reality hit. If you're anything like I was, you're not feeling like there's anything solid in life, that you failed as a spouse and possibly a parent, and that there's no light at the end of the tunnel. I know it's cliche, but time will heal this wound. Fuck, it's been 2 years for me and I'm kinda seeing soulballs and she's been nothing short of amazing. I still can't really let her in. You just need to focus on positive things (liquid depressants aren't in that equation, fyi) and do all you can be to take care of YOURSELF. Don't do things just because you think you should for Abby. Being good to yourself is the best thing you can do for her.

You're going to have a hard time, but you got this. Plus, you're going to learn a ton about yourself on the way. Good and bad, but if you keep yourself open you'll end up stronger than hell.

 

[puddlemonkey]

I said WHO not WHAT.

well he is the one that diffused me earlier today





so I guess he's not completely worthless

 

[puddlemonkey]

 

[calveless wonder]

LOL!

that pic rules

 

[billfred]

Cindy I think you need to know that you didn't "love". You're going through what's possibly the most traumatic time of your life. When the ex and I split (after 12 years together) I was a mess. I didn't know up from down, we had our baby that she was threatening to take away, she was banging some pill head douchebag, my dog just died, and my industry was in shambles. I shut myself down completely and didn't talk to wimmons. If I didn't do that, I guarantee I'd have found someone that was as codependent as I'd have been, fallen in "love" and then had reality hit. If you're anything like I was, you're not feeling like there's anything solid in life, that you failed as a spouse and possibly a parent, and that there's no light at the end of the tunnel. I know it's cliche, but time will heal this wound. Fuck, it's been 2 years for me and I'm kinda seeing soulballs and she's been nothing short of amazing. I still can't really let her in. You just need to focus on positive things (liquid depressants aren't in that equation, fyi) and do all you can be to take care of YOURSELF. Don't do things just because you think you should for Abby. Being good to yourself is the best thing you can do for her.

You're going to have a hard time, but you got this. Plus, you're going to learn a ton about yourself on the way. Good and bad, but if you keep yourself open you'll end up stronger than hell.

I love this dude - no homo.

 

[gotmilk]

When the ex and I split (after 12 years together) I was a mess. I didn't know up from down, we had our baby that she was threatening to take away, she was banging some pill head douchebag, my dog just died, and my industry was in shambles. I shut myself down completely and didn't talk to wimmons.

Been there. REPEATPOST.

Someone once crushed me and to this day, I still cannot figure out why it screwed with me so badly. In college, I romped my way thru cheerleaders, med students, etc and for some reason, this one girl fugged with my head so badly. Three years of actually not that great times and she cheated on me while drunk.

Had to drive like 800 miles overnight in the act to catch her. Then fugging ended up in Mecklinberg County jail because I threw the dood thru the front door.

Then I made myself worse by heavily drinking to the point where I took out a telephone pole at 88 mph with a BAL of 3.1. My flux capacitor did not kick in.

Then to make myself feel "better", I fugged some really ugly troll.

I wasted a few years of my life hurting myself until I realized what a POS I had been with.

 

[billfred]

Been there. REPEATPOST.

Someone once crushed me and to this day, I still cannot figure out why it screwed with me so badly. In college, I romped my way thru cheerleaders, med students, etc and for some reason, this one girl fugged with my head so badly. Three years of actually not that great times and she cheated on me while drunk.

Had to drive like 800 miles overnight in the act to catch her. Then fugging ended up in Mecklinberg County jail because I threw the dood thru the front door.

Then I made myself worse by heavily drinking to the point where I took out a telephone pole at 88 mph with a BAL of 3.1. My flux capacitor did not kick in.Then to make myself feel "better", I fugged some really ugly troll.

I wasted a few years of my life hurting myself until I realized what a POS I had been with.

Sorry dude - that made me laugh.

My sister escaped from rehab and tried to kill herself by running into a telephone pole. Bad news for her was she had airbags. She just ended up with a totaled car and a bill from the city for the pole.

 

[miplank]

Sorry dude - that made me laugh.

My sister escaped from rehab and tried to kill herself by running into a telephone pole. Bad news for her was she had airbags. She just ended up with a totaled car and a bill from the city for the pole.

seriously?

lmfao

 

[IrightI]

That capaciter that people say they have, I wasn't born with one.... Did I ever mention the New Beginings group here... LMAO