You gotta love when an ex from years back calls you...

[Forge]

I attract the trouble ones. Always have. I am not sure what I would do with a stable, attractive, successfull woman.

I used to think I attracted the trouble girls too. Now I realize that it's not that I attract troubled girls, it's that so many women have lots of troubles!


I got the call once. This girl I dated cheated on me (with several guys I later discovered), but then professed that she only loved me and that it meant nothing. We broke up and she proceeded to fuck every guy in town. Years later right after I got engaged she calls me out of the blue and apologizes profusely, begging me to give her another chance as she has changed her ways. Then after I turned her down, she wanted to just fool around until the marriage was final. I turned her down, I think it hurt her so bad that she never called me again.

 

[Fragadelic]

To apologize for having been such a jerk.

This guy was my first love, and broke my heart in a zillion pieces. 6 years later, (last night) he calls to say he's sorry. Very unexpected, yet cool.

Anyone else ever gotten a call like this? Or made one?

Oh thanks so much for posting up about our private conversation!

 

[alien amp pharm]

Seashell, this dude only called you because he was feeling lonely because he probably just got dumped, and he didn't know wtf to do. So, he broke open the little black book, found your name, and called you with the futile chance he might get into your pants.

Exactly!

 

[Seashell]

Seashell, this dude only called you because he was feeling lonely because he probably just got dumped, and he didn't know wtf to do. So, he broke open the little black book, found your name, and called you with the futile chance he might get into your pants.

No.

His brother just died. He was a good guy, we used to double date with him and my friend all the time. Anyway, he said it made him realize that no one knows when their times is up and do the things you can while you're still around because you never know when it's over. Hence, the apology.

 

[Scotsman]

The best thing that ever happened to me in my life started the day my ex came home after cheating on me and I stood up, wrote a check for the rent, picked up my bag and my guitar and my knives gave her a hug and walked into world. Still email back and forth, we were together for five years, trade recipes, restaurant gossip, the basic.

I never really treated anybody like shit, i suppose, although I can think of one I wish I had... lol....

That's awesome that you turned something very negative into the start of the good life you have today.

As for me I ran into an ex one night and started talking to her after 2+ years of considering her as dead. Then she comes out with "you know I always loved you right?" She treated me like crap the entire time we were together but deep down she loved me. Talk about being even more confused than I was before seeing her.

Seashell- He probably found out how you are doing and realized he screwed up royally by losing you.

Cheers,
Scotsman

 

[TheProject]

To apologize for having been such a jerk.

This guy was my first love, and broke my heart in a zillion pieces. 6 years later, (last night) he calls to say he's sorry. Very unexpected, yet cool.

Anyone else ever gotten a call like this? Or made one?

Yep, my last ex called and e-mailed me multiple times to apologize.

I just stopped answering the phone.

Problem solved.

 

[Y_lifter]

Step 6 of any 12 step program

Either that or he's Dying..

 

[SoreArms]

I actually went out with my ex to dinner last night. It always start out fun "how have you been?" "What have you been up to?" "yadda yadda yadda" but after a few drinks it always ends up "You were never there for me" "Did you ever really care?" "blah blah blah"

 

[Werd]

I am not stalking you! I posted on this thread first. You followed me psycho

Naaaaaaaaaaaah couldnt be you. NOt unless you beat a man within an inch of his life, did some time for it then went around telling everyone that respected you that you did it because you were "in the zone" and were protecting children from harm (implying that he was a sexual predator). Meanwhile the truth was that though the guy may have deserved somewhat of an asswhoopin (depending on how cromagnun one's thinking is) because he had a habit of spreading gossip. I just can't see you pounding a man's head into a sink then kicking him in the head a few more times with steel-toed boots because he was talkin' 'bout ya. But Jersey, if the redwing boot fits....

tee-fuckin'-hee

 

[jh1]

Naaaaaaaaaaaah couldnt be you. NOt unless you beat a man within an inch of his life, did some time for it then went around telling everyone that respected you that you did it because you were "in the zone" and were protecting children from harm (implying that he was a sexual predator). Meanwhile the truth was that though the guy may have deserved somewhat of an asswhoopin (depending on how cromagnun one's thinking is) because he had a habit of spreading gossip. I just can't see you pounding a man's head into a sink then kicking him in the head a few more times with steel-toed boots because he was talkin' 'bout ya. But Jersey, if the redwing boot fits....

tee-fuckin'-hee

I am so lost....