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WTF is wrong with me?
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evansteve
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dugie65 said:
i got an idea,
u can teach me how to get a g/f.
that will occupy a LOT of your time.
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evansteve
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dugie65 said:
how the heck do i get the balls to ask a girl for her number.
how do i get the balls to say what i want to women, without caring about the consequences?
how do i get the motivation to go out and find women? all i can get myself to do on a daily basis is sleep, go to class, mess around on the computer, and do a tiny bit of homework.
dugie65
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evansteve said:
Alright for the main part its all about building your self-confidence. I know this sounds stupid, but practice hitting on ugly chicks(not too ugly). Don't take it any further than just hitting on them, but it will help your ego greatly. Also don't look at these 'hot' girls like they are gods. Shit they are the same as you and me, they have insecurities too. Just try to come across as confident, not cocky or an asshole(although being an asshole works sometimes).
Most importantly, meet new people. Even if you don't hook up with all of them, the important thing is you're building your skills.
If you're young like me try to just be who you are(i'm an extremely sarcastic person) and hope the girl goes for it. With 7 billion people in the world there's bound to be one who does.
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Ulcasterdropout
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Sup, dugie65 . 
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evansteve
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dugie65 said:
okay, what do u mean by hitting on an ugly chick, u mean like asking for their number??
I dont want to give them the wrong idea...
also isnt it mean to pretend that someone is attractive when u really think that they are ugly?
meeting new people is damn near impossible, unless u have the motivation to get out into the world.
I think i've discovered my problem people.
seizer
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evansteve said:okay, what do u mean by hitting on an ugly chick, u mean like asking for their number??
I dont want to give them the wrong idea...
also isnt it mean to pretend that someone is attractive when u really think that they are ugly?
meeting new people is damn near impossible, unless u have the motivation to get out into the world.
He means flirt with them, learn to make them smile and laugh. Make then want to form a circle around you and listen. Once you do this, up your standard a notch and repeat.
awittyusername
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Damn it!! Flexygel tricked me into reading a "Flexygel Dating Advice" Thread. Its the same advice everytime from a different person.....Flexgel has the same answers...Of course, he never takes advice.....The person who gave him the advice gets frustrated.
I like you flexgel. (except for the above) Now, is the time to take action.
I like you flexgel. (except for the above) Now, is the time to take action.
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Ulcasterdropout
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November!?!
awittyusername
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RADAR said:
Sorry bro,
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get another girlfriend.
get a dog. (you have no idea how much my dog has helped me meet women)
acquire a vast collection of porn.
meet a chick with common interests.
it really sucks cuz society has made so many of the everyday events a couple thing. going out to eat, seeing a movie, going out for a drink.........seems that you can't escape it.
get a dog. (you have no idea how much my dog has helped me meet women)
acquire a vast collection of porn.
meet a chick with common interests.
it really sucks cuz society has made so many of the everyday events a couple thing. going out to eat, seeing a movie, going out for a drink.........seems that you can't escape it.
RADAR
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dugie65 said:
I'm in the same boat...the best thing you can do is keep yourself occupied and not think about it!
I wish there was an easier way but theres not.
Sometimes at night i can't sleep for the crap being on my mind!
Some red wine may help at a time like that!
RADAR
i speak from experience. there are trash cans that haven't been dumped as much as me. one time i got a terrible bout of insomnia from a brutal break-up. i got like 3 or 4 hours of sleep every 2 days. it went on like this for almost 2 months. then one day a friend of mine told me "how can you expect someone to love you if you don't love yourself"? well, from that day on, i started to. i went out and treated myself like these women i was chasing all the time. i bought a bunch of books and movies i'd been wanting to read/watch. i ate my favorite foods for dinner every night. i got the things that i had put off from getting. started working out again seriously. i took care of me. pretty soon, i was over it, and now, looking back, i feel like a fool for making myself that available to someone who never came close to matching my efforts. Dugie, i have no idea how your relationship was, but maybe some of the stuff i posted might help.RADAR said:
geoboy
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dugie65 said:it ended in november.
btw, thats 6 months of NO CONTACT. if you call or see her, it's worse and can take longer.
they had some studies that demonstrated that its actually biologically similar to a physical addiction. when you see/talk to a person who appeals to you, your brain releases endorphins (and I think dopamine?). no target person, no endorphins. The craving you feel is actually a withdrawal response where your body is trying to force you to see her so it gets its fix of endorphins.
cold turkey, and by fourth of july you'll be happy as a clam. hit the gym and keep busy.
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awittyusername said:
alright. I am going to try hitting on ugly women. But I wanna make something clear. just because I am hitting on them to build confidence, does not mean that I will bone them, kiss them, or even cuddle with them.
ewwww
LOL @ tricking you
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