It ended because it took her 3 hours to get ready for a date since she didn't live full time as a woman. So I tried to be a nice guy and told her that we could go out for lunch or what-not while she was not in drag and I would be cool with that.
Except, after a couple months it messed with my head and I no longer saw her as "female" and I had to end it.
The moral of the story is, "Never listen to a man when he tries to convince you that he capable of not being shallow"