Women: Marry that man who isnt prince charming but is good enough

[miplank]

Recipe for disaster. You should take it as a compliment, especially if she doesn't respond to any of it. Good luck!

I know...I know...It's hard sometimes. It kinda depends on the situation though.


She has actually told me that if I occasionally didn't show any emotion at all she would be worried. She takes it as a sign that I care..

She knows my personality and is okay with it.

 

[Mr. dB]

Apparently I'm not even good enough for a woman to settle for. There's settling, and then there's stooping.

 

[mrplunkey]

This is going to come across as very callous, but it's true. Entering into a relationship is like any other investment. You obviously hope that investment is going to grow over time. If your value is derived from appearance and youth only, your investment is going to tank.

 

[Spartacus]

and if you choose a mate by looks you are a fool anyway

is the body considered "looks"
I prefer a healthy physique for numerous reasons beyond visual appeal

 

[cindylou]

is the body considered "looks"
I prefer a healthy physique for numerous reasons beyond visual appeal

I actually would prefer a hot bod over an average one anyday

but that wouldnt keep me from marrying a guy if the rest fell into place and he was overweight unless he was just plain FAT.

 

[Mr. dB]

I think I'd be better off if I went gay. Too bad I'm nauseated at the thought of having to touch a naked man. And I don't like show tunes.

 

[redsamurai]

I think I'd be better off if I went gay. Too bad I'm nauseated at the thought of having to touch a naked man. And I don't like show tunes.

do it anyway and tell us how it went......

 

[chesty]

Never settle period!

 

[nefertiti]

Recipe for disaster. You should take it as a compliment, especially if she doesn't respond to any of it. Good luck!

lol, I'm completely oblivious to men checking me out but S. always points it out to me with a big grin on his face...he loves it and will ham it up. Once we were walking around DC and he saw a group of guys staring...so when we passed them he reached down and grabbed a handful of ass. I'm the same way with him...I get a kick out of watching girls/women fawn over him. He'd probably spit fire if any of them laid a hand on me, but that's another matter. There's a difference between being territorial and jealous.

Miplank, relish in the fact that you married a woman who gets checked out. She's yours and while they get to look, you're the only one who gets to touch.

As far as the whole thread...there's a million other things I want to respond to, but I don't have the time for it...but I'll say that almost every older couple I know who have been together for years and are actually happy have both - butterflies/passion, and actual real-life compatibility and friendship.

 

[miplank]

lol, I'm completely oblivious to men checking me out but S. always points it out to me with a big grin on his face...he loves it and will ham it up. Once we were walking around DC and he saw a group of guys staring...so when we passed them he reached down and grabbed a handful of ass. I'm the same way with him...I get a kick out of watching girls/women fawn over him. He'd probably spit fire if any of them laid a hand on me, but that's another matter. There's a difference between being territorial and jealous.

Miplank, relish in the fact that you married a woman who gets checked out. She's yours and while they get to look, you're the only one who gets to touch.

As far as the whole thread...there's a million other things I want to respond to, but I don't have the time for it...but I'll say that almost every older couple I know who have been together for years and are actually happy have both - butterflies/passion, and actual real-life compatibility and friendship.

Territorial!...that's the word i was looking for.