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stilleto said:

SWOLE'S REAL NAME IS ALEX??!!??


(I made it a soft color so it wouldn't hurt your eyes)

OH MY GOD!!! really!?!?!

I'm so utterly shocked!!!?!?

Alex.. are you sure.. are you certain??






since you braught it up six times, I thought I'd respond, lol.
 
inkspot said:
BIKINIMOM said:
I do agree that our society places a TREMENDOUS paramount on "the wedding" and virtually NONE on "the marriage." Every little girl in America fantasizes about her wedding day but I have yet to hear of very many that actually sit and think about what every day of her life thereafter would be like. QUOTE]

IMO BM this does not reflect today's society. Marriage is not first on there mind, at least no young lady under 25 that I know. Higher education is the big push. Being self reliant, not getting yourself in a situation where you are dependent on a man. Thinking of everyday of her life thereafter? Please thinking past next month is a stretch for some.

I was only talking in the context of relationships and not of what WE SHOULD be teaching our children about life as a whole. I'm sorry if I was not more clear.

My girls know damned well that you get an education FIRST so you can be anything you want to be and find personal fulfillment from within. Then when they have sampled life and finally found a friend they can think about a marriage. Wedding is something that is not even brought up, it is THAT unimportant in the grand scheme of things.
 
FriendlyCanadian said:
since you braught it up six times, I thought I'd respond, lol.

:)
well i was trying to take the focus off of the current "i hate men/i hate women" topic.



I try not to generalize. Men and women are smart and dumb and controlling and annoying and sexy and clueless and everything else equally IMO.

I love/hate them both the same and not at all until i meet one and form my individual opinion.

people are easy to understand if you realize they are all different.
 
swole said:
:rolleyes:

so true, they all have the same basic chemistry

and before you start saying, "oh alex, stop messing with girls and date real women...it's the so called "real women" who are MORE predictable and pathetic than anything

and we wonder why pickup artists are so successful

and no, there is no such thing as "the one"

just someone you're compatible with

they're all replaceable

we're not meant to be with one person

if we are happy with one person then we are content to be ignorant in terms of soul exploration (or tired of searching - nothing wrong here)

ignorance truly is bliss

in short, we're selling ourselves short

it's hard to go it alone, people are just pussies and settle

or try to dedicate themselves to something of a higher value to give themselves meaning

swole (keeping options & eyes open)

p.s. i'm really a sucker for love despite my opinions


I am also interested in hearing more about this 'basic chemistry' that unites all women.

Please tell me all about the 'basic chemistry'.
 
stilleto said:
why is everyone just glossing over the glaringly obvious shocker in this whole thread????

I'm not. I for some reason was also a bit startled when I saw that his name is Alex.
 
needtogetaas said:
think some one posted it already but

boys have a penis and girls have a vagina o and tits and ass please post. :)

And you think that the genitalia are all that different?

They are derived from the same tissue in the embryo, and gonads are gonads my dear friends.

The penis is an exact replica of the clitoris and vice versa, right down to all the nerve endings.

We are not really all that different, we even share all the same hormones, testosterone, progesterone and oestrogen (just usually in slightly varying amounts).
 
stilleto said:
:)
well i was trying to take the focus off of the current "i hate men/i hate women" topic.



I try not to generalize. Men and women are smart and dumb and controlling and annoying and sexy and clueless and everything else equally IMO.

I love/hate them both the same and not at all until i meet one and form my individual opinion.

people are easy to understand if you realize they are all different.

I hear ya, I don't want to get in this pointless arguement either.

men do stupid shit, so do women.. but not all of them are the same.

I'm honestly not surprised that his name is Alex though.
 
FriendlyCanadian said:
I hear ya, I don't want to get in this pointless arguement either.

men do stupid shit, so do women.. but not all of them are the same.

I'm honestly not surprised that his name is Alex though.

i know, right?

it doesn't seem quite italian enough. Its the name of a jeapardy host, not swole!
 
tatyana_zadorozny said:
And you think that the genitalia are all that different?

They are derived from the same tissue in the embryo, and gonads are gonads my dear friends.

The penis is an exact replica of the clitoris and vice versa, right down to all the nerve endings.

We are not really all that different, we even share all the same hormones, testosterone, progesterone and oestrogen (just usually in slightly varying amounts).
um are those your real nails.
 
All genders feel they have the other one figured out. When you have negative beliefs, you’re bitter.. Positive beliefs you’re doing something right. Communication and trust are what holds a relationship together, without them you have nothing! Men/Woman get tired of “settling” and that’s exactly why someone then becomes bitter. Everyone do you, and eventually someone will JUST FIT :)...... A Real woman does not settle for less then the best...... a little girl will settle and believes everything she is told.

And you are sooo right about real Women...cause we see through all the Bullshit

A wise girl kisses but does not love
Listen but does not believe, and leaves before she is left............
 
covergrl80 said:
When you have negative beliefs, you’re bitter.. A wise girl kisses but does not love
Listen but does not believe, and leaves before she is left............
umm. ok.
 
covergrl80 said:
All genders feel they have the other one figured out. When you have negative beliefs, you’re bitter.. Positive beliefs you’re doing something right. Communication and trust are what holds a relationship together, without them you have nothing! Men/Woman get tired of “settling” and that’s exactly why someone then becomes bitter. Everyone do you, and eventually someone will JUST FIT :)...... A Real woman does not settle for less then the best...... a little girl will settle and believes everything she is told.

And you are sooo right about real Women...cause we see through all the Bullshit

A wise girl kisses but does not love
Listen but does not believe, and leaves before she is left............

Did I just get dumped?
I was only kidding about role playing as Dr. Phil and Oprah.
 
covergrl80 said:
I am just sayin you should take me out on a date before the role playing starts.....lol

Still trying to get a date I see.
 
covergrl80 said:
I am just sayin you should take me out on a date before the role playing starts.....lol

I guess you can be Oprah and I can be Dr. Phil if you want.
I guess...
God I love being Oprah. :worried:
 
stilleto said:
i know, right?

it doesn't seem quite italian enough. Its the name of a jeapardy host, not swole!

My first boyfriend I was with for 7 yrs is named Alex, short for Alessandro, which is very Italian.

Men and women are all humans and all humans suck...the end!
 
LuluDeren said:
Trebek or The Great?


the name my adopted parents gave me is Alexander, after "the great".........my birth mother however named me Michael, after St. Michael.


Anyway, I think the underlying issue here that this thread is unearthing is that both sexes shit on each other because nobody knows who the fuck they are anymore. Everything is pretense. I'm not sure solid LTR's can truly exist in this society..........we are a flaming capitalist "throw away" society where the "grass is always greener". Look at the messages we're bombarded with daily...........throw away that old thing cause dis new shit is DA BOMB!! But that being said.........people can grow apart........I don't have any answers. My goal in life is to find someone I can grow with............which means there has to be an underlying and fundamental "UNCONDITIONAL' love for your signinficant other. If your love is based off of superficiality and loneliness............it will not last.............and IMO it wasn't even love to begin with. But we're so pressured in this fuckin place to pick someone based off of unsound values to begin with. If you can't divorce yourself from this society........you will never find "the one" because you're wrapped up in the machine which is telling you new bullshit from week to week. I just turned 30 a week ago and realized that my best years are behind me.......I'm not old by any means, and I plan of raging for life............but the best years of me are gone. Years where I could have made someone very happy................this world is kind of fucked, just as you figure shit out.......you're old and it's time to leave. I ain't comin back if I can help it.......
 
redsamurai said:
the name my adopted parents gave me is Alexander, after "the great".........my birth mother however named me Michael, after St. Michael.


Anyway, I think the underlying issue here that this thread is unearthing is that both sexes shit on each other because nobody knows who the fuck they are anymore. Everything is pretense. I'm not sure solid LTR's can truly exist in this society..........we are a flaming capitalist "throw away" society where the "grass is always greener". Look at the messages we're bombarded with daily...........throw away that old thing cause dis new shit is DA BOMB!! But that being said.........people can grow apart........I don't have any answers. My goal in life is to find someone I can grow with............which means there has to be an underlying and fundamental "UNCONDITIONAL' love for your signinficant other. If your love is based off of superficiality and loneliness............it will not last.............and IMO it wasn't even love to begin with. But we're so pressured in this fuckin place to pick someone based off of unsound values to begin with. If you can't divorce yourself from this society........you will never find "the one" because you're wrapped up in the machine which is telling you new bullshit from week to week. I just turned 30 a week ago and realized that my best years are behind me.......I'm not old by any means, and I plan of raging for life............but the best years of me are gone. Years where I could have made someone very happy................this world is kind of fucked, just as you figure shit out.......you're old and it's time to leave. I ain't comin back if I can help it.......

You need to consider the advice forwarded by your sig.:)
 
redsamurai said:
the name my adopted parents gave me is Alexander, after "the great".........my birth mother however named me Michael, after St. Michael.


Anyway, I think the underlying issue here that this thread is unearthing is that both sexes shit on each other because nobody knows who the fuck they are anymore. Everything is pretense. I'm not sure solid LTR's can truly exist in this society..........we are a flaming capitalist "throw away" society where the "grass is always greener". Look at the messages we're bombarded with daily...........throw away that old thing cause dis new shit is DA BOMB!! But that being said.........people can grow apart........I don't have any answers. My goal in life is to find someone I can grow with............which means there has to be an underlying and fundamental "UNCONDITIONAL' love for your signinficant other. If your love is based off of superficiality and loneliness............it will not last.............and IMO it wasn't even love to begin with. But we're so pressured in this fuckin place to pick someone based off of unsound values to begin with. If you can't divorce yourself from this society........you will never find "the one" because you're wrapped up in the machine which is telling you new bullshit from week to week. I just turned 30 a week ago and realized that my best years are behind me.......I'm not old by any means, and I plan of raging for life............but the best years of me are gone. Years where I could have made someone very happy................this world is kind of fucked, just as you figure shit out.......you're old and it's time to leave. I ain't comin back if I can help it.......


good post

Some of the happiest marriages I know are the ones that have been arranged.
They "get" that marriage is a contract. Love has very little to do with a good marriage. If people can be realistic about marriage, there would be less divorce.
 
covergrl80 said:
All genders feel they have the other one figured out. When you have negative beliefs, you’re bitter.. Positive beliefs you’re doing something right. Communication and trust are what holds a relationship together, without them you have nothing!

Yes!
 
covergrl80 said:
When you have negative beliefs, you’re bitter...


I disagree. I personally am a very happy person, yet I have negative views on women/marriage/etc. I simply accept the facts and actually use what I've learned over the past 30+ years to my advantage.
 
PuddleMonkey said:
I disagree. I personally am a very happy person, yet I have negative views on women/marriage/etc. I simply accept the facts and actually use what I've learned over the past 30+ years to my advantage.


I could be wrong, I think or at least I interpreted that the negative thoughts is person specific and not just across the board a single gender specific.
 
It's less painful being alone.
 
velvett said:
I could be wrong, I think or at least I interpreted that the negative thoughts is person specific and not just across the board a single gender specific.


Absolutely! I would never say anything negative about my brothers wife for example. They've been together since he was 15 and her 13, they are both in their 30's now. Perfect relationship, no kids, both make 6 figures, everything they want, both very happy.

My negative views are from my experiences, I am what I've been taught. Most of it is my fault as I target taken women deliberately, but I was screwed from go. My first relationship/love was to a married woman who I didn't find out was married until 3 months in. When I got very suspicious of odd behavior she finally confessed. Now I simply go after the taken ones purposely for multiple reasons. One, I don't want marriage or kids. So if she already has those things then I'm pretty much off the hook. Two, I like the challenge. Or at least what I thought would be a challenge. I'm appalled how easy it is to get a woman who is married/engaged/taken to cheat on their significant other. Three, I feel the best times of a relationship are the first 3-6 months. So going into it I've already put a time line on the relationship. This aids in not becoming attached. Not to mention if she is already with someone, that obviously helps too. Out of the 40ish women I've been with I'd estimate 30 of them were in relationships.

I know there are good women out there, they are just far and few between.
 
blueta2 said:
good post

Some of the happiest marriages I know are the ones that have been arranged.
They "get" that marriage is a contract. Love has very little to do with a good marriage. If people can be realistic about marriage, there would be less divorce.



you're speaking of a business arrangement, not a union of souls. So yeah, love don't have much to do with anything as long as the s.o is providing x, y, z that was bargained for in the contract. The Clintons are probably as good an example of this kind of arrangement that I can think of. Good for anybody this works for..............I however would prefer to be alone over something like this.
 
PuddleMonkey said:
My negative views are from my experiences, I am what I've been taught. Most of it is my fault as I target taken women deliberately, but I was screwed from go. My first relationship/love was to a married woman who I didn't find out was married until 3 months in. When I got very suspicious of odd behavior she finally confessed. Now I simply go after the taken ones purposely for multiple reasons. One, I don't want marriage or kids. So if she already has those things then I'm pretty much off the hook. Two, I like the challenge. Or at least what I thought would be a challenge. I'm appalled how easy it is to get a woman who is married/engaged/taken to cheat on their significant other. Three, I feel the best times of a relationship are the first 3-6 months. So going into it I've already put a time line on the relationship. This aids in not becoming attached. Not to mention if she is already with someone, that obviously helps too. Out of the 40ish women I've been with I'd estimate 30 of them were in relationships.


I know there are good women out there, they are just far and few between.

This is the exact same reason women go after the "bad boys"
I am also appalled how easy it is to get married men to cheat on their wives.
It's a vicious circle and there are a lot of good men/women out there
 
redsamurai said:
I just turned 30 a week ago and realized that my best years are behind me.......I'm not old by any means, and I plan of raging for life............but the best years of me are gone. Years where I could have made someone very happy................this world is kind of fucked, just as you figure shit out.......you're old and it's time to leave. I ain't comin back if I can help it.......

why the hell are your best years behind you at age 30
 
redsamurai said:
I just turned 30 a week ago and realized that my best years are behind me.......I'm not old by any means, and I plan of raging for life............but the best years of me are gone. Years where I could have made someone very happy................this world is kind of fucked, just as you figure shit out.......you're old and it's time to leave. I ain't comin back if I can help it.......

"Regret is a wasted emotion."-Nietzsche
 
javaguru said:
"Regret is a wasted emotion."-Nietzsche

Regret

As I drift away... far away from you,
I feel all alone in a crowded room,
Thinking to myself
"There's no escape from this
fear
regret
loneliness..."

Visions of love and hate
A collage behind my eyes
Remnants of dying laughter
Echoes of silent cries

I wish I didn't know now what
I never knew then...
Memories punish me once again
Sometimes I remember all the pain
that I have seen.
Sometimes I wonder what might
have been...

Visions of love and hate
A collage behind my eyes
Remnants of dying laughter
Echoes of silent cries

And sometimes I despair
At who I've become
I have to come to terms
With what I've done

The bittersweet taste of fate
We can't outrun the past
Destined to find an answer
A strength I never lost
I know there is a way,
My future is not set,
For the tide has turned
But still I never learned to live
without regret.
 
fagtart

PuddleMonkey said:
As I drift away... far away from you,
I feel all alone in a crowded room,
Thinking to myself
"There's no escape from this
fear
regret
loneliness..."

Visions of love and hate
A collage behind my eyes
Remnants of dying laughter
Echoes of silent cries

I wish I didn't know now what
I never knew then...
Memories punish me once again
Sometimes I remember all the pain
that I have seen.
Sometimes I wonder what might
have been...

Visions of love and hate
A collage behind my eyes
Remnants of dying laughter
Echoes of silent cries

And sometimes I despair
At who I've become
I have to come to terms
With what I've done

The bittersweet taste of fate
We can't outrun the past
Destined to find an answer
A strength I never lost
I know there is a way,
My future is not set,
For the tide has turned
But still I never learned to live
without regret.
 
superdave said:
why the hell are your best years behind you at age 30


I'm not saying I'm an old fart yet.........but the fire I once had, which I never aimed right to begin with........is going away. Not that this is all of it, but it felt good to walk around with a halfie all the time............you were cocked, locked and ready to rock at a given notice. I still have good years ahead of me and I plan on cheating father time to the best of my abilities.............but the primal years are gone. But I would have been completely content with sharing those years with just one woman.........the right one of course. I feel cheated by some of the fake pretenders I spent time with............."especially" one of em, who I gave many years to. In hindsight I should have been sowing more of my oats. Women in that age bracket are just as clueless as the guys and don't appreciate shit. That's probably why I always gravitated towards older women. But then again, it was an older woman who sucked 4 years of my life from me..................so I don't have a fukin clue anymore.
 
who wrote this?

PuddleMonkey said:
Regret

As I drift away... far away from you,
I feel all alone in a crowded room,
Thinking to myself
"There's no escape from this
fear
regret
loneliness..."

Visions of love and hate
A collage behind my eyes
Remnants of dying laughter
Echoes of silent cries

I wish I didn't know now what
I never knew then...
Memories punish me once again
Sometimes I remember all the pain
that I have seen.
Sometimes I wonder what might
have been...

Visions of love and hate
A collage behind my eyes
Remnants of dying laughter
Echoes of silent cries

And sometimes I despair
At who I've become
I have to come to terms
With what I've done

The bittersweet taste of fate
We can't outrun the past
Destined to find an answer
A strength I never lost
I know there is a way,
My future is not set,
For the tide has turned
But still I never learned to live
without regret.
 
PuddleMonkey said:
I know there are good women out there, they are just far and few between.

although the fire has already burned, this is what alot of the "man haters" feel.

I don't hate women, i just hate stupid women.
 
Judgement (written after the Cavanagh brothers mother died)

The inequity of fate
The pains of love and hate
The heart-sick memories
That brought you to your knees

And the times when we were young
When life seemed so long
Day after day
You burned it all away

All the hate that feeds your needs
All the sickness you conceive
All the horror you create
Will bring you to your knees

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gxIEZg5BMVE
(Clearly not an official video)
 
redsamurai said:
I'm not saying I'm an old fart yet.........but the fire I once had, which I never aimed right to begin with........is going away. Not that this is all of it, but it felt good to walk around with a halfie all the time............you were cocked, locked and ready to rock at a given notice. I still have good years ahead of me and I plan on cheating father time to the best of my abilities.............but the primal years are gone. But I would have been completely content with sharing those years with just one woman.........the right one of course. I feel cheated by some of the fake pretenders I spent time with............."especially" one of em, who I gave many years to. In hindsight I should have been sowing more of my oats. Women in that age bracket are just as clueless as the guys and don't appreciate shit. That's probably why I always gravitated towards older women. But then again, it was an older woman who sucked 4 years of my life from me..................so I don't have a fukin clue anymore.

Ok thats more specific and makes sense. Im 33 next month and definetely know what thats all about although I sowed my oats more than I can remember in my 20's so when I settle down I dont think I will wonder what its like to bang a shitload of women. But its true about slowing down sexually as you get older but in a sense its nice because you arent as preoccupied with horniness in your mind and it frees you up for other things. But of course it was nice to lock and load anytime day or night so theres always tradeoffs. You can still pull the young girls who are into "older distinguished" men or something lol.
 
what is lamentable to me is that it didn't have to be that way.............I know people alot older than me that were able to keep the fire. Life has just kind of numbed me.........maybe it'll change once I find my way, but who knows.


superdave said:
Ok thats more specific and makes sense. Im 33 next month and definetely know what thats all about although I sowed my oats more than I can remember in my 20's so when I settle down I dont think I will wonder what its like to bang a shitload of women. But its true about slowing down sexually as you get older but in a sense its nice because you arent as preoccupied with horniness in your mind and it frees you up for other things. But of course it was nice to lock and load anytime day or night so theres always tradeoffs. You can still pull the young girls who are into "older distinguished" men or something lol.
 
calveless wonder said:
although the fire has already burned, this is what alot of the "man haters" feel.

I don't hate women, i just hate stupid women.

I hate a small handful of women lol
 
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