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jnevin

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I'm finally meeting with a legit attorney tomorrow to go over what I need to do in order to get sole/ full custody of my daughter. I've put it off for way too long thinking about the "what if" factor, but apparently I have a very strong case. Those of you that know me and are familiar with the whole thing know what a POS her mom has been, and it's gotten worse. It's gotten to the point that I've been having pretty severe anxiety attacks and I need to do something about it for the sake of my sanity.

I love my life.
 
smurf2 said:
FWIW, i have sole custody of my son and it's still nerve wracking when he's off visiting with his Dad.
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Yeah I can imagine. This is basically so I can keep her from just taking Q away from me. I guess she's told some people she'd be within her rights to do so and that Q would be better off in a stable family environment, which apparently means shacking up with a married guy.
 
1) Good luck

2) I'd bet your attorney will advise you to not go the "PoS mom" route. Even if she's caught red-handed doing bad things, I'd avoid a situation where she's on trial for being a bad mother, because she'll defend herself more vigorously. I remember when my daughter decided to stay with me full time. I didn't rock the boat at all -- even kept paying child support as if it were a 50/50 arrangement.

3) Good luck!
 
jnevin said:
Yeah I can imagine. This is basically so I can keep her from just taking Q away from me. I guess she's told some people she'd be within her rights to do so and that Q would be better off in a stable family environment, which apparently means shacking up with a married guy.
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Yeah you definitely want the sole custody. It will solidify things from a legal standpoint.
 
mrplunkey said:
1) Good luck

2) I'd bet your attorney will advise you to not go the "PoS mom" route. Even if she's caught red-handed doing bad things, I'd avoid a situation where she's on trial for being a bad mother, because she'll defend herself more vigorously. I remember when my daughter decided to stay with me full time. I didn't rock the boat at all -- even kept paying child support as if it were a 50/50 arrangement.

3) Good luck!
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Thanks. People have told me to avoid that as well, but to have what I've documented on hand. The attorney told me to bring what I have, but the amount of time alone that I have Q should supposedly be enough. She actually has her less than the minimum time allowed for if I already had sole custody.
 
good luck dude!
 
Man, you deserve a ton of respect for raising your angel virtually alone.
I know how rewarding and difficult it can be. Take care of the legal aspect. It should be good for your head too.
 
Good luck jnev. I'm glad you're finally taking steps to get this stuff dealt with. It can be rough, but I'm sure you'll be fine. :)
 
good thing you are taking care of this bro, you'll do fine because you're always doing right by your girl's side and her mom never is.
Good luck :friends:
 
So it went well. The attorney basically looked at me like "the fuck have you waited so long to do this?" when I broke it all down for her. I'm basically looking at mediation instead of court and primary (sole) custody if things stay the same as they already are. If the ex doesn't agree to the terms she said I have enough ammo between what I've documented and the fact that her mom and sister will be on my side as character witnesses that I could basically take my daughter from her and only give her every other weekend.

She's also going to charge me half of what her normal retainer is because it looks like such an easy case. But I'm still poor. :(
 
jnevin said:
So it went well. The attorney basically looked at me like "the fuck have you waited so long to do this?" when I broke it all down for her. I'm basically looking at mediation instead of court and primary (sole) custody if things stay the same as they already are. If the ex doesn't agree to the terms she said I have enough ammo between what I've documented and the fact that her mom and sister will be on my side as character witnesses that I could basically take my daughter from her and only give her every other weekend.

She's also going to charge me half of what her normal retainer is because it looks like such an easy case. But I'm still poor. :(
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Is she still seeing that douchebag that left his wife and newborn?


about the poor thing, I may be able to help if you're interested. I haven't got all the details yet, but it would be commish based (pry 5-10grand/mo) depending on how you work it and based in SLC.
 
miplank said:
Is she still seeing that douchebag that left his wife and newborn?


about the poor thing, I may be able to help if you're interested. I haven't got all the details yet, but it would be commish based (pry 5-10grand/mo) depending on how you work it and based in SLC.
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She is, and she's told me that she'll take Q and move in with him because it'd be a more stable family environment (ngr hasn't even filed yet, btw). I was just thinking "are you stupid AND out of your fucking mind?" He's also been telling her she should sue for full custody so she can get back child support from me, even though I can show documentation and her own mother and sister will back me.

Lemme know about the j-o-b thing. What I'm doing now sucks assholes.
 
I for sure will...I was talking with the guy the other day and he mentioned Utah and how he quit doing business there because Mormans are hard to deal with or something, and I thought of you. I mentioned you and he said he'd be willing to go back into UT.

Basically it's a Rep for an extended warranty company. Sign Dealers up with the company and you make residuals based off each dealers performance (like an insurance agent kinda) I figured you'd probably do well at it since you dealt with people in the mortgage bidness. The good thing is you could contine to tend bar or whatever your'e doing if you wanted to while you got yourself established.

I'll talk to the owner of the company again and get more details
 
miplank said:
I for sure will...I was talking with the guy the other day and he mentioned Utah and how he quit doing business there because Mormans are hard to deal with or something, and I thought of you. I mentioned you and he said he'd be willing to go back into UT.

Basically it's a Rep for an extended warranty company. Sign Dealers up with the company and you make residuals based off each dealers performance (like an insurance agent kinda) I figured you'd probably do well at it since you dealt with people in the mortgage bidness. The good thing is you could contine to tend bar or whatever your'e doing if you wanted to while you got yourself established.

I'll talk to the owner of the company again and get more details
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good bro material right there
 
miplank said:
I for sure will...I was talking with the guy the other day and he mentioned Utah and how he quit doing business there because Mormans are hard to deal with or something, and I thought of you. I mentioned you and he said he'd be willing to go back into UT.

Basically it's a Rep for an extended warranty company. Sign Dealers up with the company and you make residuals based off each dealers performance (like an insurance agent kinda) I figured you'd probably do well at it since you dealt with people in the mortgage bidness. The good thing is you could contine to tend bar or whatever your'e doing if you wanted to while you got yourself established.

I'll talk to the owner of the company again and get more details
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Cool man, thanks. I start school in a few weeks but can do what I need to in order to keep Q and me ok.
 
yeah, no problem at all man.

I'd like to see you get back on your feet. I got mad respect for you and what you're doing. I hope you get custody, good luck bro!
 
Sorry it's even coming to this
Hope it all works out as I think kids need both parents, wish she would grow the fuck up and put your daughter first
 
jnevin said:
So it went well. The attorney basically looked at me like "the fuck have you waited so long to do this?" when I broke it all down for her. I'm basically looking at mediation instead of court and primary (sole) custody if things stay the same as they already are. If the ex doesn't agree to the terms she said I have enough ammo between what I've documented and the fact that her mom and sister will be on my side as character witnesses that I could basically take my daughter from her and only give her every other weekend.

She's also going to charge me half of what her normal retainer is because it looks like such an easy case. But I'm still poor. :(
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it will be the best investment you'll ever make :)
 
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